Dear Shannon, Please create Approach Desire/ or something to that effect.

[Leo1990]

Oh and for benefit for women- gender neutral please

In the United State of America. Women expect the man to approach. I doubt a woman would purchase this title if it were gender neutral. Women get approached all day long for her to even need to purchase this title.

As for approach... is the goal to get the phone number? An instant date? Same day/night lay?

Eventually, you will meet the one and want to be with just her. Would it be wise to continue approaching women if you are in a relationship?

If you have an IDGAF mentality about approaching you might end a fantastic relationship because you can't stop approaching.

You get a desire to approach. It doesn't make you approach. Besides I know some men that are Monogamous but they still approach- as in approaching then compliment, then bail and say have a nice day. I keeps their mind sharp and it keeps them being in the moment and dominant. The feeling you get after you have conquered your fear- multiple times is a great feeling.

Women do want to approach, I know plenty that feel men "these days" are wusses beta males and they would rather approach people they find attractive instead of waiting for it or not. Besides its refreshing to be a man and to be approached by a woman. Some women DO want to approach.

I can agree with you sarge. I dont expect it to be a cure. You know that. As it is I am experimenting with an affirmation for it and a visualization. Approaching should be its own reinforcement if done correctly. If your a sleazeball about it and get rejected everytime I could see it being very difficult... in fact why continue.

There is a right-way and a wrong way to approach a woman. For this Sub I think its mostly for DIRECT approaches.