the question i ask myself here is if there really is a need to be an alpha/womanizer in terms to be happy... i started these subs because as a child i watched these movies of james bond and other cool guys and always wanted to be like them... the subs made me become like this guys but it feels different than i thought at the end happiness is all what we want and i really ask my self do i need to be alpha to be happy? or do i just want to feel alpha because of the power... of course i can ask questions like this because i already reached a state like this with women the old afzal 3 years ago would think in an other way, the old afzal got mistreated and manipulated by women and didnt understand what he was doing wrong ...
another thing is the calibration, most of the guys ( me too) didnt grow up as alphas/womanizer so one run trough never will be enough even if it is so long as my there will be the old beta guy in your head fucking up the game of the new alpha guy or cock block him... the beta had in my case over 20 years to grow and the alpha only 3.... so the beta guy will always try to screw you and you know women will accept you if you are a pure player or a poor nice guy but not if you are a bit of nice guy and a bit of asshole because its not congruent... you have to really decide which way you want to go the most men are not alpha for a good reason because its hard game is hard owning your life is hard... and in the most cases our weak genes are not helping us accomplish this in a light way...
thats why i am experiencing two kind of reactions right now from women either they say to me "you dont always have to PLAY the alpha" or they call me a monster.... its all about calibration and who you really want to be...
another thing is the calibration, most of the guys ( me too) didnt grow up as alphas/womanizer so one run trough never will be enough even if it is so long as my there will be the old beta guy in your head fucking up the game of the new alpha guy or cock block him... the beta had in my case over 20 years to grow and the alpha only 3.... so the beta guy will always try to screw you and you know women will accept you if you are a pure player or a poor nice guy but not if you are a bit of nice guy and a bit of asshole because its not congruent... you have to really decide which way you want to go the most men are not alpha for a good reason because its hard game is hard owning your life is hard... and in the most cases our weak genes are not helping us accomplish this in a light way...
thats why i am experiencing two kind of reactions right now from women either they say to me "you dont always have to PLAY the alpha" or they call me a monster.... its all about calibration and who you really want to be...