05-04-2015, 06:35 AM
Quote:... Alpha Male 6 run results:
-"Have let go of any negative self image, attitudes, thoughts and beliefs about yourself." Absolutely! Garbage beliefs have been shattered. I can do ANYTHING.
-"Have a powerful, positive sense of self respect, self esteem, self image and self worth." Absolutely! I demand fair treatment, and instantly, almost automatically, call out any behaviour or treatment towards me that's contrary to that.
-"Have unshakable self confidence." Absolutely! My confidence is the best it has ever been in my entire life. I've never felt so calm, so quietly confident in myself in every way. I truly feel I can do anything I apply myself to, it's amazing. Which IMO is REAL confidence, instead of "look at me and how alpha and badass I am blah blah". Instead...I just AM...big difference.
-"Be unaffected by rejection." Well, this one is harder to notice in my case. I have been SO focused on myself and my company, that I haven't really bothered with girls that much during the program. This programming may begin to become a factor once I interact with girls during SM3.
-"Treat women as people to enjoy the company of, without taking them too seriously, needing them, or being easily upset by them." Absolutely! This one for me seemed to work TOO well almost haha. I was very clingy and needy at times, which killed off chances with girls often. Now, during AM6, I had little to no interest in girls. Which sucked because sometimes I had chances with girls I think maybe, but showed little to no interest in them. AM6 really dealt with this issue, maybe too aggressively for me. Which is why I chose SM3 to run now to balance this out so I can get more attraction, and maybe actually BOTHER following through with girls.
-"Have released expectations towards women, which often lead to bad choices, actions, attitudes, thinking and responses." Absolutely! I think I somewhat answered this in the previous comment. I seem to not really give a damn about girls beyond looking at them and admiring their hotness now. I haven't been bothered to make any kind of move since I started AM6, which is ironic since I started getting some attraction during it but couldn't be bothered to do anything about it and was more focused on myself and my company. Which you could say AM6's main goal is, to focus on yourself and develop yourself. So perhaps it isn't that far off the main intention, even if this did hit me really hard.
-"Be self sufficient and self reliant mentally, emotionally and otherwise." Absolutely! Almost zero interest in girls throughout the program so maybe it worked TOO good haha. I was often spending a week or two at a time ALONE working on my company. And, was happy and content. I VERY rarely had any loneliness issues, and if I did get them, they were very light and temporary. And the "loneliness" may be misdiagnosed as the sub telling me to go be more social to be fair.
-"No longer be, or come across to others as “needy”." Absolutely! I had little interest in girls throughout the entire program. So yes, the last thing I was, was needy. In the past, I had a terrible problem with this.
-"Take good care of yourself, your hygiene and your appearance, not just because you want to be attractive to beautiful women, but because it makes you feel good about yourself." This I had before hand. I would always look presentable before going out etc. I didn't get the workout urge most guys seem to get, and remain in a shape where I could chop 20 pounds of fat to be fair.
-"Be able to effortlessly approach any woman you want – and the more attractive you find her, the easier it will be." I loved that sound of this bulletpoint, and spent the program waiting for it to appear. However, due to my extremely low interest in girls throughout the program, I never got a chance to see if this bulletpoint ever carried over to me. Because I didn't ask out a single girl throughout the program.
-"Be selective about whom you spend your time with, and which women you give your time, interest and affections to." Absolutely! I guess I got this entire bulletpoint. Even though from a girl standpoint I didn't get too involved. But, with others, I have cut away people who were low quality and users, and not angry anymore about people that have screwed me over before in the past. I don't waste my time on low quality people who disrespect or mistreat me.
-"Exude an aura of confidence, commanding presence and authority, which gets you respect, attention and obedience." Absolutely! I have been treated more respectful and polite and have been more or a "presence" throughout the program.
-"Exude an aura of sexiness that makes you much more attractive to the beautiful women you encounter. The more beautiful they are, the more attracted and interested they will be." Absolutely, I assume. I seemed to get some attraction throughout the program at times, so yes I think it was this bulletpoint driving this.
-"Have a Zen attitude, which keeps you calm when other guys would lose control, thus demonstrating your self control and mastery of the situation – an Alpha male trait." Absolutely! NOTHING can mess my vibe up. I think fast, act quick, remain solid, and have epic confidence on myself and my decisions. This really helps as an entrepreneur.
-"Display graceful, confident body language, which broadcasts your power and dominance to all, but especially females (for whom body language is a very important way of communicating, and thus determining the men they are interested in)." Absolutely! My body language is much "bigger" and more masculine indeed. I've noticed it many times!
-"Display the attitude, thinking, actions and speech patterns of an Alpha Male." Absolutely! I am extremely sure of myself, think clearly and decisively, am sure footed, and have steered through tense situations because of this.
-"No longer seek approval from others, nor be concerned with what they think of you or what you do or say." Absolutely! I am a one man island. If I believe it's right, and I have facts to back it up to me that it's right, I will not bend to anyone. I have self validation, external validation is gone. It's a wonderful feeling.
-"Be your own man, who does what he wants, when he wants, how he wants, where he wants." Absolutely! Answered this somewhat earlier. I do what I want, on my own terms. Inner peace and happiness is amazing. I don't get bad moods ever anymore. I'm in charge of myself, nobody else, so bad moods stemming from external nonsense or other people, are extinct.
-"Be in control when dealing with women, and especially beautiful women or women you are interested in." Absolutely! Well, I am more dominating and masculine with girls I like. And less nervous and anxious. I haven't been into them enough to make a move though. It's funny, before AM6, I asked girls out a lot, during AM6, never did once. Hopefully SM3 changes this.
-"Be entirely unconcerned about “getting the girl” or achieving sexual interaction, which will make the ladies perceive you as higher status, higher value, and more worthy of both." Absolutely! I've talked about this one already a few times in this post. I have literlaly been completely unconcerned with "getting the girl". TOO much so IMO...no point being more attractive if you couldn't care less about getting with girls. I'm hoping SM3 brings me back to balance while greatly increasing my attraction.
-"Be easily able and willing to walk away from people and situations you don’t like, and TELL HER NO — whether it’s to her asking for sex or anything else." Absolutely! I have no problems saying no or cutting people off or going to war ofr people about anything, calling them out about anything. Zero fear of it, or need for them to like me, external validation.
-"Be in complete control of yourself and your environment, and YOU will be the one who controls when, how, and with whom you have sex." Never had sex during this program. For some reason I never made a move on one girl during it. Hopefully SM3 fixes this.
-"Develop and display a fantastic sense of humor, which will make you socially popular and attractive to others, especially beautiful women." Absolutely! Already had this, maybe AM6 improved it. My humour is epic, and I can get girls smiling and laughing and showing IOI's quickly.
-"Be entirely comfortable in social situations of any type, whether they are familiar to you or not." Absolutely! Far less anxious, nervous energy. Very noticeable. That just further improves my perception from a girl's eyes.
-"Be a better, higher and more refined quality of man." Absolutely! I feel I have matured, developed more character and value. Overall, a much improved CatMan, except in the realm of female attraction and sex life. SM3 hopefully will complete the transformation.
Final Conclusion:
Wonderful run. Not perfect, each man gets hit differently by AM6. Shannon says that, and it makes sense because each man has different strengths and weaknesses and their past hurts all differ. I had issues with external female validation, clingy and needy behaviour, and low confidence and self esteem because I have never been intimate with a girl and viewed them to be impossible to get creatures. With the changes towards girls in particular in my case, it's OBVIOUS to me that AM6 has given me a solid, non needy, healthy foundation to start SM3. It's abundantly clear AM is needed before doing a magnet, I just wanted to take the chance to further reinforce that. ...
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!