Best book I ever read

[dissonance]

Wait so, in the excerpt that you linked in the text document...in the second "step", what exactly is the author saying? Is he saying that the second "test" she gives will be after the relationship starts? and they have been seeing each other already? And what exactly is the test? He doesn't give any examples of what a test like that would be, and what an example of a "passing" reaction from a man would be nor a "fail" reaction would be.