AfzalG,
You are a very blunt man. Being blunt is not going to make you friends all the time, because personalities who are very blunt usually lack tact. Telling someone there is "something wrong with them" is a generally insulting thing to do, and that is widely understood by the majority of the population. To you it is just expressing yourself. So CatMan is not responding to you in any very unusual manner by perceiving an insult, even if that may not have been how you were intending it to be taken.
And CatMan, you have to understand that different personalities communicate in different ways. Some people are blunt and tactless, and some are considerate and circuitous. It takes all kinds. There is no need to take it personally enough to be insulted. Some people are just like that as their style of thinking and communication.
There is no need for anyone's ego to be bruised, and there is no need for anyone to run off because they are offended or insulted. We do need to maintain mutual courtesy and respect, however. Even when we disagree.
AfzalG, you seem strongly to be focused right now on simply getting your rocks off. It is what it is. CatMan is focused on finding a relationship that includes sex. That also is what it is. Those are two opposites of the same coin of "getting to sex". His way isn't right for you, and your way isn't right for him. Remember where I said, "If you want to do PUA, then do PUA!" That was me understanding that your path is right for you. I don't necessarily agree with the majority of PUA stuff, and it's not the right path for me, but if you think that's the way that's right for you, then that's valid for you. But it is equally valid for CatMan to be in the situation he is in, and have his own point of view and approach and end goal.
You don't need nice clothes or money or fancy anything to attract good women. You do need those things to attract the more shallow women. A good woman won't need them, and won't care about them because she's interested in and focused on you and your emotional connection with her. A shallower woman will usually be interested in them because she is being competed for based on her looks alone, and she is still playing the BBD game. (Bigger better deal)
There are exceptions and modifiers, of course, but this is generally true.
So for the type of woman AfzalG is interested in, who is generally shallow and not very self aware, money and fancy stuff will achieve AfzalG's goal. But for CatMan, those women are not interesting, worthwhile or right for him and his desires and goals, and so they are not on his radar. The women he is interested in won't be found with PUA and money.
You are a very blunt man. Being blunt is not going to make you friends all the time, because personalities who are very blunt usually lack tact. Telling someone there is "something wrong with them" is a generally insulting thing to do, and that is widely understood by the majority of the population. To you it is just expressing yourself. So CatMan is not responding to you in any very unusual manner by perceiving an insult, even if that may not have been how you were intending it to be taken.
And CatMan, you have to understand that different personalities communicate in different ways. Some people are blunt and tactless, and some are considerate and circuitous. It takes all kinds. There is no need to take it personally enough to be insulted. Some people are just like that as their style of thinking and communication.
There is no need for anyone's ego to be bruised, and there is no need for anyone to run off because they are offended or insulted. We do need to maintain mutual courtesy and respect, however. Even when we disagree.
AfzalG, you seem strongly to be focused right now on simply getting your rocks off. It is what it is. CatMan is focused on finding a relationship that includes sex. That also is what it is. Those are two opposites of the same coin of "getting to sex". His way isn't right for you, and your way isn't right for him. Remember where I said, "If you want to do PUA, then do PUA!" That was me understanding that your path is right for you. I don't necessarily agree with the majority of PUA stuff, and it's not the right path for me, but if you think that's the way that's right for you, then that's valid for you. But it is equally valid for CatMan to be in the situation he is in, and have his own point of view and approach and end goal.
You don't need nice clothes or money or fancy anything to attract good women. You do need those things to attract the more shallow women. A good woman won't need them, and won't care about them because she's interested in and focused on you and your emotional connection with her. A shallower woman will usually be interested in them because she is being competed for based on her looks alone, and she is still playing the BBD game. (Bigger better deal)
There are exceptions and modifiers, of course, but this is generally true.
So for the type of woman AfzalG is interested in, who is generally shallow and not very self aware, money and fancy stuff will achieve AfzalG's goal. But for CatMan, those women are not interesting, worthwhile or right for him and his desires and goals, and so they are not on his radar. The women he is interested in won't be found with PUA and money.
Subliminal Audio Specialist & Administrator
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
