04-23-2015, 12:50 AM
Quote:As I said in my post, it's down to my subs and my mones. PUA made me spend thousands of dollars, and it didn't work. I always felt it was surface level nonsense that wouldn't really allow a true, lasting connection. I also felt it was more focused on short term dehumanised hookups and used bandaids and overcompensations for deeper problems in a man, deceptive practises or even outright lies to tell women. It seemed fake, orchestrated, and would be detected by a woman as disingenious and cartoonish. I also found a lot of the coaches I worked with, most of the high end names in the industry most people know, on a one on one private coaching basis since I could afford it...to be shallow, and have low levels of confidence when I'd test them. Even having a simple joke about them to see if they can self-deprecate a bit to show me they're healthy and confident enough to vibe with me, would make them whiney and childishly mad at me. I discovered each surprisingly had terribly low confidence...so this endless pursuit of women by them is no doubt IMO, a result of massive neediness, and serious need of external validation, of course also that they can make a business out of it now. In my experiences, I've determined they're nothing but paper tigers...subs and mones have made the change for me.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!