The guys who women will go after and try to seduce are the ones who really, REALLY attract and arouse their interest. Which ones are those? Regardless of what she says, what she will almost always DO is go for the guys who just... don't... care. The IDGAF attitude is like crack for high value women, and the higher she rates on the hottie scale when you hit her with it, the more intrigued and interested she will typically become, in my experience.
Imagine, a ten who gets guys attention all day long. Every day. Most guys don't have enough self confidence to even talk to her, and she's used to a lot of the guys who do come up to her actually shaking as they (try to) talk to her. She's only confidently approached by two types: Alphas (extremely rare) and a**holes (99.99% of the guys she encounters who approach confidently).
She appears to be attracted to the a**holes, but she's not: she's attracted to men who project themselves as being on (or slightly above) her level of value. She's looking for the man who isn't impressed by her stunning good looks, because he's the guy who has other major options, and that, her genes tell her, is the alpha, and the alpha is who she needs to breed with.
One of the biggest signs that a man is alpha? Not really noticing, paying much attention to, or seeming very impressed with the hottest woman in the room. Her. And this is why the IDGAF attitude interests her. And partly why the SM3 can induce that attitude.
Could it be resistance, etc? Yes. But it could also be you developing higher value responses. Give her the signal that you're higher value than she is because you have multiple options as good looking or better than she is, and she will see that extremely rare man who she just cannot ignore. Then, she will start approaching you. No matter how ood looking she is, and no matter how good looking you are.
But, you have to pull it off right, and that will vary depending on your results in her instant-assessment. If she instantly assesses you to look lower value than she believes herself to be, your actions, attitude, body language, sense of humor and such will be critically important to interesting her and changing her mind about your actual value. Such a man must approach while interacting in an interesting way (keep her interested enough to have a chance to demonstrate his high value to her in other ways) while not giving any signal of sexual or romantic interest or attraction, as she expects.
The story would be very different if he is also a 10, or if she perceives him to be of better looks, higher status or higher value than she is. That man can pretty much completely ignore her and she will either seek him out, or possibly be intimidated by him and instead signal interest, but not approach for fear of getting shot down.
The higher value a woman is, the more afraid she secretly is of being shot down, because she has had no need to approach, and is used to a steady diet of positive responses and comments/compliments to sustain her self image. That is why a "neg" can work wonders with a 10, although these days, it must be a natural one and not a fake one, because women learn quickly in order to defend themselves from those who would prey on their emotions just for a night of fun.
In any case, there are other possibilities here.
Imagine, a ten who gets guys attention all day long. Every day. Most guys don't have enough self confidence to even talk to her, and she's used to a lot of the guys who do come up to her actually shaking as they (try to) talk to her. She's only confidently approached by two types: Alphas (extremely rare) and a**holes (99.99% of the guys she encounters who approach confidently).
She appears to be attracted to the a**holes, but she's not: she's attracted to men who project themselves as being on (or slightly above) her level of value. She's looking for the man who isn't impressed by her stunning good looks, because he's the guy who has other major options, and that, her genes tell her, is the alpha, and the alpha is who she needs to breed with.
One of the biggest signs that a man is alpha? Not really noticing, paying much attention to, or seeming very impressed with the hottest woman in the room. Her. And this is why the IDGAF attitude interests her. And partly why the SM3 can induce that attitude.
Could it be resistance, etc? Yes. But it could also be you developing higher value responses. Give her the signal that you're higher value than she is because you have multiple options as good looking or better than she is, and she will see that extremely rare man who she just cannot ignore. Then, she will start approaching you. No matter how ood looking she is, and no matter how good looking you are.
But, you have to pull it off right, and that will vary depending on your results in her instant-assessment. If she instantly assesses you to look lower value than she believes herself to be, your actions, attitude, body language, sense of humor and such will be critically important to interesting her and changing her mind about your actual value. Such a man must approach while interacting in an interesting way (keep her interested enough to have a chance to demonstrate his high value to her in other ways) while not giving any signal of sexual or romantic interest or attraction, as she expects.
The story would be very different if he is also a 10, or if she perceives him to be of better looks, higher status or higher value than she is. That man can pretty much completely ignore her and she will either seek him out, or possibly be intimidated by him and instead signal interest, but not approach for fear of getting shot down.
The higher value a woman is, the more afraid she secretly is of being shot down, because she has had no need to approach, and is used to a steady diet of positive responses and comments/compliments to sustain her self image. That is why a "neg" can work wonders with a 10, although these days, it must be a natural one and not a fake one, because women learn quickly in order to defend themselves from those who would prey on their emotions just for a night of fun.
In any case, there are other possibilities here.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
