03-26-2015, 12:57 PM
(03-26-2015, 12:42 PM)zen Wrote: The problem is just on the Admin side where no measures were taken from the start.
I believe this thread went into a wrong direction, not aligned with the spirit of this company. We were supposed to become a better version of ourselves. In my book, being a better person does not mean putting ones down in public without giving them the access to fight back.
I thought measures were taken, Ben said he was warned.
I understand about being "better" people and stuff, but that doesn't include hiding the truth. If it comes out that someone was being a certain way, we, as "better" people are obligated to speak up if it's true or not.
I, personally, didn't mention the pm's to Ben at the time because like I said: me and Fonzy never got along and it's normal (to me) for internet forum people to be a bit odd, no?
But when Ben asked me if Fonzy had been harassing me, I wasn't going to lie just because I was a "better" person. The truth had to be told in the interest of public wellfare.
Once again with this topic, I felt it would be good for people to hear my story, as I'm sure everyone else who contributed did. We're not bashing the guy, we're simply saying what happened, if there ARE hurt emotions involved, it's understandable though.