03-22-2015, 08:46 PM
Alpha 360, you do not have approach anxiety. You have a deep rooted fear of another man beating you to death, or getting sent to prison. That's why you don't approach. You're not scared of the girl, and you're not scared of talking to the girl. You're scared of what could happen if you do talk to her. We all have this fear it's why the average man does zero approaches in his whole life and only meets women that are introduced to him by friends or just by the situation like same school or job. You don't have approach anxiety, you have fear of another man killing you. Even if you don't realize it, it's in your mind that you could approach a girl and it could go horrible and she could call the cops or text some guy and he'll show up in 2 seconds and kill you, or other people just random people will beat you or have you put in prison. All irrational fears, but all real fears in most of us. Imagine if you were on an island alone with a girl, just you two nobody else existed. Think about how easily you could just start talking to her, it's because you aren't anxious about talking to her, you're anxious about what could happen. Hope that makes sense to you. You're not scared of approaching the girl, you're scared of all the shit that could happen if you do approach her. Maybe overcoming fear would help you more than oaa
