02-03-2015, 04:52 AM
(This post was last modified: 02-03-2015, 05:09 AM by JackOfHearts.)
(02-03-2015, 03:16 AM)TheChosenOne Wrote:(02-03-2015, 02:43 AM)maniac360 Wrote: Uncertainty/price/trust/faith/doubt, reading all the AM6 journal I didn't see once that approach anxiety disappear. This was a problem with AM5 too.
Before I continue, the reason for doing this is not for confrontation but to IDENTIFY a sticking point (and to measure accountability). This is how one of my mentors in the past taught me to be accountable for myself. If your waiting for the fear to go away before you approach, you will be waiting a long time. Small successes in approaching will build your confidence up, rather than holding yourself to an "Ideal" of being an approaching machine (creating an Identity).
You should watch some video with Richard Bandler. In just ~10 minutes he makes Approach anxiety disappear.
In the past I was using this method, I don't use it anymore. From my new point of view: if you think about yourself approaching a beautiful girl you feel the exact same feeling you would have had approaching a real girl. If you can hack this anxiety like Bandler does it disappear instantaneously.
I'm sorry but I don't want to spend a year accounting for such simple things as approach anxiety. As of now I didn't succeed yet at removing it with Bandler method. I'm actually facing some crazy resistance right now due to all the programming I'm using on myself with Bandler hypnosis/nlp/etc
I know about the build up confidence after approaching someone. I use it lot but the next day it's still there (the anxiety). In fact even when reading the OAA script I feel the anxiety when I imagine myself doing the behavior. I'm even actually feeling it in this moment.
"If you approached 1 woman a day for a year, that's 365 women in a year" -> Time consuming, time wasting, money wasting.
I'm want the sub to help remove the anxiety, not doing 500 approach so I can get rid of it. If it's even possible the approach way. Because I have done a fair deal of approach in the past and it didn't get me too far. But I was very ignorant at the time.
Your method seems cool but it's outdated my friend, it's not efficient enough to me. This behavior is due to my subconscious being program the wrong way, wrong belief. Doing approach to cure it is the slowest way. You might as well doing 1000 approach in your mind it would much more efficient and cost much less. I might do it actually or make my mind believe I did it.