Shannon's Journal

[Benjamin]

Thanks for writing that about social proof, I learnt something there.

Girls hugging you because they are getting something out of it, that's called usury.

Guess i've got so used to that. Most of the time in my job it's not like they want something directly, but there is something else, to be seen getting attention from the security like it makes them feel 'special' or something.

When a woman sees you being manipulated by another woman in order to get what she wants from you, your social proof actually decreases. That's why it seems to scare off other girls for you, seems like. That, and you can "OD" on value by making them feel like they're not good enough, not in your league.

Hmm interesting, never thought of that before. I feel it could be both of these at different times.

When you get going with AM2011, you'll know who's really interested and who isn't without any trouble at all. You won't much care in either direction, either, but the women who are interested will be, shall we say, obvious. You'll see what I mean come stages 3, 4, 5, and especially 6.

Awesome, that is something that will be awesome for me to have. It's all got mixed up form this job where i've thought they were interested but when i've tried to make a move alot of the time they haven't been.

I look forward to the obviousness of it.. as I tend to be a bit blind to their interest from the ones who really are interested alot of the time.

-Ben