Rubman's AM6 journey

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At the end of the day we talked And I understood, the real alpha way should be " I dont care what she does"... So We are friends again and I wont care about her love life...

I think Not caring about what she does is exactly to be an alpha.. because the other way around is a bit coward (I was a bit furious).

Maybe it's just me, but I don't think you should think in lines of "what would real alpha do?". Do what you think and feel is right, don't limit yourself to some arbitrary ideas which might or might not make you happier.

It's like people saying "I must be good son/husband/insert whatever here". This kind of thing is bad for two reasons:
-you are forcing yourself into role you're not comfortable yet (if it was it'd be natural)
-it doesn't make you alpha as it changes nothing integral in you.

Don't be ashamed of your "beta" thoughts, as you will be more confident and there will be proof you are higher quality man those will disappear on their own, replaced by proper (not some imaginary) alpha thoughts. Just be yourself, don't be ashamed of being needy or down or whatever. Don't think, act. That's why stupid people tend to be happier.

Good post, people are born salesmen, everybody tries to force you their beliefs about how you should act, even make you feel inferior for not being on the same level or having the same understanding of things. I think people mostly do it unknowingly with that feeling of "I am helping them by telling them what to do" almost like it's our duty to do so. I know because I've been on both ends too, sometimes doing things that are even absolutely stupid because someone convinced me.