(01-10-2015, 04:52 PM)rubman Wrote: At the end of the day we talked And I understood, the real alpha way should be " I dont care what she does"... So We are friends again and I wont care about her love life...
I think Not caring about what she does is exactly to be an alpha.. because the other way around is a bit coward (I was a bit furious).
Maybe it's just me, but I don't think you should think in lines of "what would real alpha do?". Do what you think and feel is right, don't limit yourself to some arbitrary ideas which might or might not make you happier.
It's like people saying "I must be good son/husband/insert whatever here". This kind of thing is bad for two reasons:
-you are forcing yourself into role you're not comfortable yet (if it was it'd be natural)
-it doesn't make you alpha as it changes nothing integral in you.
Don't be ashamed of your "beta" thoughts, as you will be more confident and there will be proof you are higher quality man those will disappear on their own, replaced by proper (not some imaginary) alpha thoughts. Just be yourself, don't be ashamed of being needy or down or whatever. Don't think, act. That's why stupid people tend to be happier.
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~Belisarius, the last Roman
Certitude is for the puzzle-box logicians and girls of white glamour [...]. I am a letter written in uncertainty.
~36 Lessons of Vivec, Sermon 4
