(01-15-2011, 07:39 PM)spiralout1988 Wrote: Woceyes... insecure men make fun of each other and insult one another. I never found too much fun in that unless they are very very close friends then it's never an insult but just a tease or something totally harmless. But hang in there man. I hear it gets alot smoother once you get to stage 5!
I also do believe that apart from insecurity, men also insult each other to see if they are reliable and can be trusted or just easily crack (to check the boundary, same as sh*t tests).
@woceyes
It's better for her to label you a fag, than having to face the fact that she was stood up by you, which makes her feel less valuable, and probably a bit more insecure about herself and her appearance, (i.e. she feels a lot less sexy).
She's trying to make you insecure, since she doesn't have a good sense of self, and thinks more highly of your rejection/opinion of you than she does for herself. That's why she is trying to devalue you as a person, so that your opinion/rejection of her also diminishes in value (in her mind).
The funny thing is, calling you a fag is the same as calling a woman a wh0re (my apologies for "bypassing" the filter, but ***** wouldn't made it clear what I meant). Which is the biggest insult you can give to a woman (unless you're going in the direction of sandwiches and kitchens...). She's actually packing the big guns, and you mean a lot to her
If you ignore and show indifference towards her and don't get (emotionally) involved in her insults, you'll just drive her crazy.It's very emotional and immature behaviour alright.
