(12-20-2014, 11:53 AM)TheRealJustin Wrote:(12-20-2014, 06:03 AM)maniac360 Wrote: [Post in violation of rule 4.]
You must not understand, the point is to not get in your head and just say something without thinking about what you're going to say, and just see what happens.
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What do you mean it will work 20% of the time, do you mean words will only come out of your mouth 20% of the time? You should be able to talk 100% of the time.
What's supposed to work about it? You just talk and see where it goes. It will either go somewhere, or it won't. Either way you get to talk to a cute girl even if all you get is "hi" & a smile, that's still better than sitting there doing nothing.
If you're looking for an outcome, for something to "work" the girl will smell that from a mile away even if you think you're hiding it. If you're not just genuinely being friendly you'll come across like a rat.
At the very least you do the same for a girl as you would an 80 year old man and just say "hi how's it going?"
Never say that online though. Online you're better off just saying nothing. Real life is a million times different than online.
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But something I have notice is that online or offline you can't hide your true-self that's why I use subliminal so I change myself. Saying to someone "Just open your mouth without thinking and see what happens" or behave a certain way without using some kind of hypnosis or some other tools isn't going to help most of the time.
To me it's not natural to the guy in the first place. This isn't him, it's already fake. He is already trying to behave unnatural to what is subconscious knows. So eventually when he will have use all his conscious attention he will make a mistake and go back to his true programming which is the opposite.
Again for some people it works because their internal programming was sufficient and they were just afraid of the first step. For some it's not the case.
I have tried the "not using a question online" I never found any difference.