(12-18-2014, 08:12 PM)Bond Wrote: it just hit me that it's not exactly approach anxiety I experience, but it's just a complete lack of confidence in my social skills concerning women. I'm just simply not that good at it since it's not something I've done too many times.
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Use that with women. Just open your mouth without thinking and see what happens. Sometimes it will just be hi, sometimes a short convo that could lead to nothing or something.
When you talk to girls online don't hit on them and they'll all reply. Just say whatever, and a little tip that works wonders is say stuff that doesn't ask for a reply. As in say stuff that doesn't end in a question mark. That throws girls off hard core. Every guy starts with a question, but also don't start with something like "wow you're gorgeous" or "just wanted to say hi".
btw it's easier to get a girl in real life than online unless you're pretty good looking, then it's probably easier online.
Thanks for starting a journal though.
