11-28-2014, 04:26 AM
(11-28-2014, 12:29 AM)sebastian Wrote: I just think connection is a two way thing. And if I am not really interested in other people how do I connect to them? Especially with women on the emotional level. And like I said it's not a lack of interest to certain people (which would be ok), it feels like a general disinterest.
Well it just happens lol. You bring up something, and someone will bring up something similar that they experienced. I used to TRY to "bond" like that, but now I'm finding people are the ones trying it with me I'll literally say something in passing and someone will chime in "I had a similar experience!" lol it's almost off-putting but it's cool.
As for women, you both have attraction/sex in common. I'd say stick to that, the other stuff comes with time, but is not a prerequisite.