SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet

[SargeMaximus]

That's an interesting one. Thanks. It's because even if I should decide to talk to her it doesn't men that she will be honest thereafter.

That's right, so just accept it. She is who she is. Don't try to change her, but just relate to HER, not who you think she should be.

If sex or other opportunities arise, take them with the same kind. Maybe you could meet with her in public, or make sure to always have an escape plan if she gets crazy. Whatever, just relate to her as she is.

Right, wise advice, I cannot change her. But this make me even more willing to say her. Not to change her, but just to let her know where I AM. No matter if she is willing to like or accept what I am telling.

I'm not sure what you mean. If you're saying you should let her know where you stand, that's a good idea so long as it's warranted. I mean, if a girl says to me "Hey, let's go here" and I don't want to, I'll tell her, but if she says "I like this" and I don't, I won't feel any need to say anything unless I want to.

In those situations, I just see it as the person sharing part of themselves with me, not an attack that I need to "defend my boundaries" against.