Have been in a club this weekend. Got looks from almost any woman there. Had some small talk with a cute blonde. Later the night I was talking to a guy there while having a lot of eye contact with the blonde one I talked to before. Then she came over, sat almost on my lap with her arm around my shoulders. We have been talking together and also her (female) friends came over and we continued talking for a while and exchanged numbers. However, it turned out that they are married, but, anyway, we met another day for brunch. I didn't expect that something happens at that time but I decide to do it anyway because I just need more practice in socializing (with women). There were definitely some points I was better than before but there is still a lot stuff I have to become better with.
But there is something different I would like to hear some opinions on. There was a party I wanted to go with a girl I know. I asked her earlier the week to text me if she is in mood the day. It wasn't a date or something like that and there were probably more people we know. I didn't get a message from her so I texted her, but got no response. So I decided to go to the club. Later the night she sent me a message and said that she wasn't at home and forgot her phone at home (which is very unlikely). The thing is, while driving to the club I passed her house and the lights were turned on, so she was at home. I want to be straight with her and tell her what I saw and that I think she was not honest. I am not sure here if I should do it this way, because it could appear as needy or she could think I am stalking her (what I don't do).
The other thing is it looks like she would like to hang out with me if she doesn't have other options. I did realize that shortly, because in the last half year we didn't do much together anyway. I would like to be straight here in the same way and tell her to rethink if she really want to hang out with me and not only due to the lack of options. What do you guys think? I just need to resolve that situation in some way but I am not sure what's the way to go. I allowed her to do a lot as we started to know each other but know I am not willing to be treated this way anymore.
But there is something different I would like to hear some opinions on. There was a party I wanted to go with a girl I know. I asked her earlier the week to text me if she is in mood the day. It wasn't a date or something like that and there were probably more people we know. I didn't get a message from her so I texted her, but got no response. So I decided to go to the club. Later the night she sent me a message and said that she wasn't at home and forgot her phone at home (which is very unlikely). The thing is, while driving to the club I passed her house and the lights were turned on, so she was at home. I want to be straight with her and tell her what I saw and that I think she was not honest. I am not sure here if I should do it this way, because it could appear as needy or she could think I am stalking her (what I don't do).
The other thing is it looks like she would like to hang out with me if she doesn't have other options. I did realize that shortly, because in the last half year we didn't do much together anyway. I would like to be straight here in the same way and tell her to rethink if she really want to hang out with me and not only due to the lack of options. What do you guys think? I just need to resolve that situation in some way but I am not sure what's the way to go. I allowed her to do a lot as we started to know each other but know I am not willing to be treated this way anymore.
