This might be BASE talking, but why don't you try to learn some way to make money? The geeky thing can only be an advantage, as long as you're also really willing to push your boundaries and take action. Socially, that would work best if there are events for entrepreneurs where you live.
In my city, there are quite a lot of girls at these events as well, although I've yet to meet an actual female entrepreneur.
In my city, there are quite a lot of girls at these events as well, although I've yet to meet an actual female entrepreneur.