The New BASE Sub

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If you think only betas spend money on dates, then you're going to be a very lonely man. Dates cost money. Are you going to stick her with the bill every time? At least, an alpha pays for himself. That's still money. Going out costs money. Entertainment costs money. A woman will spend time with a man she enjoys the company of, and while not every woman requires dates, clubs, etc, she doesn't want a guy who she has to pay for either. So attracting and maintaining the interests of a woman requires outflow of financial resources. Like it or not, them's the breaks. Not saying you have to buy her things, or pay for her - but it still costs money, regardless of whether or not you do.

Your single most valuable resource is time. Are you going to be productive in increasing your wealth if you are at a club looking for sex or relationships? And if you're not increasing your wealth and you are looking for sex/relationships, then you are spending your resources and going in the reverse direction to interest any woman. She wants to know that at the very least, you can take care of yourself. Can you do that if you spend all your money and don't replenish your supply, or actively increase your financial standpoint?

That is why I once said, the men do what it takes to get what they want, and the boys go after what they want without ever doing what it takes. What it takes is not fun - you can't just go after sex. You have to make yourself what she needs you to be in order to be safe and worth having sex with first. And that means you need to be able to take care of yourself, emotionally, physically and financially.

You show me a job or career in which you get sex while making money and I'll show you a line of work that will instantly disqualify you with the women you most want to keep, date, have sex with. So you have to pick one. Getting yourself good financially, or sex. Sex drains resources, and making money increases them. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out the rest.

GOLD! :idea: