10-23-2014, 08:52 AM
(10-23-2014, 07:01 AM)robstar Wrote: Hey guys (especially Shannon).
Just looking for some advice about SM and relationships. I'm starting SM stage 3 in a few days, I've had sex with three women since the start. (After a year long dry spell, so good testimonial?) All of them multiple times. However, I'm starting to develop feelings for one, and losing a bit of interest in sex with others. Still having sex with all three though.
What are my options here?
I'm not saying I want to enter an exclusive relationship with her right away, but we've been quite affectionate with each other and I don't want to mislead her, plus I actually see a strong potential for an LTR in the future.
Should I just keep trying to keep it ambiguous for another 4 months?
Will SM make it 'impossible' to keep a monogamous LTR or just very difficult? I'm guessing stopping SM if things get serious is a bad idea due to imbalance?
Sorry for so many questions. Kinda wishing I had run WM.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dNfsHJJhmk
