Alpha Male 2011: What do YOU want?

[WildFlower]

Well I wonder how much Sex Magnet is going to cover things like sexual confidence, dominance, and escalation?

I imagine Sex Magnet will be to Women Magnet, what Become Irresistibly Attractive to Beautiful Women Sexually is to Become Irresistibly Attractive to Beautiful Women. One thing we learnt from Women Magnet is, you must lay down the alpha bedrock first.

While on the subject, Become Irresistibly Attractive to Beautiful Women does cover expressing and acting on interest in part:

"I now give myself complete permission to fully express my masculine sexiness and desirability, and I now do this effortlessly."

"expressing my masculine sexiness and desirability continually and quickly attracts beautiful women to me and gets them to immediately act on their attraction to me in direct and obvious ways. "

" I always notice and boldly and immediately act on and take full advantage of. "

Wild, I too went through all of that a few months back and still do struggle from time to time. However... I realized, by playing too hard or by showing no interest, I didn't get what I wanted, because they thought I was either uninterested OR I was a complete ***** trying to ditch them to show that I wasn't so easy... I realized, the more I became a ladies man, the more I was able to show interest without being a loser. Now I show interest, usually after the girl has come to me. From that point on, I'll be somewhat of a tease and the sweet girl who leads guys on, but I don't hurt them at the same time.

The other night when I was with my date. I was thinking, god I wish she'd kiss me at New Years, I want to make out so bad (a state of neediness, obviously). I let things unfold and she didn't kiss me. Later on, I was in my head wondering why she's not advancing. She obviously liked me, was giving me strong eye contact, flirting, I wanted to advance things so bad. So what I do? I said screw it, I want it, I'll take it! I invited her outside with me while I smoked a cig, she scooted closer, I wrapped my arm around her, she got even closer and more comfortable then I grabbed her kissed her, let everything else unfold and invited myself to sleep over. I had to stop thinking about what it was I needed to do in order to get the girl to come on to me or to do something, like I felt like I NEEDED verification that what I was doing wasn't wrong. Yet, she told me later on how disappointed she was when I did not kiss her at midnight! Shy girls are especially hard when it comes to this.

When I realized the power I had a few months back, it was incredible, I could literally do anything I wanted to these girls and they did not freak out. I would tell them to scoot over and sit next to me, put my arm around them, and let things happen. Another time, I grabbed a girl to sit next to me and started fingering her under the table at a restaurant. I even grabbed a girl and wrote my number down her arm. All of these are moments where I told myself, f- it, I want it so I will take it, after wards they all told me the same thing, I have been waiting forever for that!

Need to get in your head immediately, that you have too much power as a man to let women have their way with you. Sometimes, you need to tell/show them what to do.

Absolutely! Nice story!

Teasing Women - thanks to Women Magnet - is now second nature to me - I guess you picked that up too from Women Magnet? Showing interest with my eyes, body language, playfulness, etc, is also second nature to me. Still this interest is passive, which is totally ideal at first, but Women start to second guess themselves when that interest doesn't escalate at the pace they where expecting. Eventually - like you - I stop over-thinking, grab my balls, and just go for it. This actually resulted in me having a very similar new years eve to yourself; I was sat on a big plastic rhino making out with this girl all night, it was crucial that I bit the bullet and showed interest there.

I think when something is obviously caused by a subconscious belief it can be hard to break that cycle. Take Approaching for example; I had for years wanted to approach people, and when I tried, it was very clumsy and forced. Very hard but I forced myself to do it. A few months into the Alpha set and it has, to my surprise, become totally natural to me. Leaving my comfort zone; being less interested in the outcome; etc, these things have all helped me become more overt with my interest. And I consciously make myself show more interest. I'm by no means, making this something that I must resolve with a sub - I've made bid steps on my own - I just thought it would make a great addition to the 2011 Alpha set.