Alpha Male 2011: What do YOU want?

[WildFlower]

EDIT: I would be so grateful of you,Shannon, if you made a seperate subliminal that dealt with Sexual escalation/Confidence/Dominance directly. I believe Wildflower made a suggestion to this. and this has been a sticking point of mine. This has plagued me my whole life.

It's obvious to me where I developed this "do not show interest; interest = neediness" belief from - seeing all the try hard's fail. I've perhaps leaned to far in the other direction though. Discretion is often needed in these situations as to how much is too much; how much is too little; and how much is just right. Goldilocks and the three bears. It isn't a one size fits all either; there is a time to be aloof and mysterious, and a time to "go out and get em'". I do fear, though, that a sexual escalation sub for someone who hasn't gone through the Alpha set, or someone who has that value naturally, could be a disaster. Hot blooded without the smooth, alpha maturity is just desperation and not at all attractive. The Alpha who remains cool, calm and under control in the vast majority of circumstances, but then, at others takes the risk and goes for the kill, expresses his interest, is - I imagine (no homo) - unbelievably sexy. Like I said, without the core, you won't be able to pull it off.