LOL! OK thanks for that. Damn men! I went back on one of my dating apps today, I had previously deleted the lot and I changed my profile. One thing I added was that eventually I want a relationship. Hmm, I better have a think about this! Yes I want men who want to just enjoy the steps. Yes, it's been quite polarized, I've met both guys through the online dating; those who were desperate for sex and those who really really wanted a girlfriend. Although some are a little of both!
There is one guy who I have had sex with a few times and known for about a year but our schedules clash (I work days, he works nights, same as with another guy) ANYWAY he drunkenly proposed to me twice, he wants to have a baby with me, (I've heard that both drunk and sober) he introduced me to his mother once and he's asked about my 10 year plan! and told me his. And yet usually when he texts me or we meet, he just wants to have sex. TMI perhaps but what I mean is some guys are both they really REALLY want a girlfriend (or even a wife!) and they also really REALLY want to get laid too and sometimes from the same girl and THEY don't even know what they want! Actually, I think I know what it's like to feel like that, so I understand.
Interesting!
I think with the girlfriend-seekers, sometimes I have come across as SO in the moment and they don't like it. Like one guy was asking me LOTS of questions even things like do I cook! and I don't think he liked it that I didn't ask him many. I was just enjoying the moment! Had dinner out with a gorgeous guy, had a great conversation and laughs with him but I actually think he was sizing me up for girlfriend material! Another one tried to convert me, I think!
And there's those who want both, like I said as in let's have sex but I'd also like to date you, I see potential for us etc etc.
And I've certainly struck my share of horny men!
I DO want a relationship eventually but it could easily take up to two years as I know what I want and also I feel like I want to do more work on myself first to prepare for it (and just in general.)
There is one guy who I have had sex with a few times and known for about a year but our schedules clash (I work days, he works nights, same as with another guy) ANYWAY he drunkenly proposed to me twice, he wants to have a baby with me, (I've heard that both drunk and sober) he introduced me to his mother once and he's asked about my 10 year plan! and told me his. And yet usually when he texts me or we meet, he just wants to have sex. TMI perhaps but what I mean is some guys are both they really REALLY want a girlfriend (or even a wife!) and they also really REALLY want to get laid too and sometimes from the same girl and THEY don't even know what they want! Actually, I think I know what it's like to feel like that, so I understand.
Interesting!
I think with the girlfriend-seekers, sometimes I have come across as SO in the moment and they don't like it. Like one guy was asking me LOTS of questions even things like do I cook! and I don't think he liked it that I didn't ask him many. I was just enjoying the moment! Had dinner out with a gorgeous guy, had a great conversation and laughs with him but I actually think he was sizing me up for girlfriend material! Another one tried to convert me, I think!
And there's those who want both, like I said as in let's have sex but I'd also like to date you, I see potential for us etc etc.
And I've certainly struck my share of horny men!
I DO want a relationship eventually but it could easily take up to two years as I know what I want and also I feel like I want to do more work on myself first to prepare for it (and just in general.)
