09-20-2014, 02:27 AM
Things starts to change. First how I think about certain things. In the past when setting up a date I was thinking things like "I hope I get a girlfriend" or "Hope I get laid" of "Hope I get at least a second date". You see the patter? Get, get, get... Unfortunately it doesn't work that way. I wanted to get things like that but I didn't do anything or just little about it and sometimes just the wrong things. And one more thing I realized is being too much goal oriented in terms of sex brings you nowhere. Probably I knew this stuff already on a certain level but now it comes all to the surface. However, two days ago I wanted to set up a date with someone I met online. And while messaging her I was just thinking "I hope we have a good time together". See the difference? And this time it wasn't like "Well I have to think this way so I get sex", no, it was what I really thought and felt.
I am also more enjoying just to have a quick chat with a woman. I doesn't have to be for long, but I feel just good about it. And like Geodude I am also starting to get free stuff and discounts. So for example I needed new photos and got two extra. She said it's a special offer. But looking around in this shop there wasn't a single hint that they had an offer like this. Later I got thirsty and went to the supermarket just to grab something I can drink. I ended up just paying one third of the listed price... Had also some more of them the week.
In the city were also people who try to sell some stuff. I usually don't talk to the people anymore but the girl stopped me was cute, so I thought a quick chat is fine anyway, maybe I make an interview with her when she is done and ask her for her number
Unfortunately a guy (who sells the same stuff) joined us and I wasn't comfortable anymore, at least not for some more private conversation and for asking her for her number. So far for now.
I am also more enjoying just to have a quick chat with a woman. I doesn't have to be for long, but I feel just good about it. And like Geodude I am also starting to get free stuff and discounts. So for example I needed new photos and got two extra. She said it's a special offer. But looking around in this shop there wasn't a single hint that they had an offer like this. Later I got thirsty and went to the supermarket just to grab something I can drink. I ended up just paying one third of the listed price... Had also some more of them the week.
In the city were also people who try to sell some stuff. I usually don't talk to the people anymore but the girl stopped me was cute, so I thought a quick chat is fine anyway, maybe I make an interview with her when she is done and ask her for her number
Unfortunately a guy (who sells the same stuff) joined us and I wasn't comfortable anymore, at least not for some more private conversation and for asking her for her number. So far for now.
In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.
