12-26-2010, 02:36 PM
I totally agree with the above
even sky said that women position themselves
near him not go up to him and start talking
sure they might go up and say hi every so often
but WAITING for that is weak and not has fun as just doing what you want to do.
One thing that helped me was to stop thinking of it as me approaching her or her approaching me
and start thinking of it like naturally coming together or just commenting on something observation and letting the chips fall where they may.
and if you can directly go up and express how in awe, not trance or whipped, you are at her-not because your trying to get something or because you want her approval but REALLY because you just want to express it-your set, its a game changer and eventually a life changer, something definitely worthwhile opening yourself up to do-not all women will like you for it but 100% will respect you and even if they walk off in a huff secretly deep down their thrilled you acknowledged their existence in that way-it validates them-your validating/qualifying them not the other way around. Fear of approach comes from worrying her opinion can change you or that others are judging you-even if she approached you, that would still be your mind set and with a mind set like that your not gonna get as far as you like with the woman you want anyway
even sky said that women position themselves
near him not go up to him and start talking
sure they might go up and say hi every so often
but WAITING for that is weak and not has fun as just doing what you want to do.
One thing that helped me was to stop thinking of it as me approaching her or her approaching me
and start thinking of it like naturally coming together or just commenting on something observation and letting the chips fall where they may.
and if you can directly go up and express how in awe, not trance or whipped, you are at her-not because your trying to get something or because you want her approval but REALLY because you just want to express it-your set, its a game changer and eventually a life changer, something definitely worthwhile opening yourself up to do-not all women will like you for it but 100% will respect you and even if they walk off in a huff secretly deep down their thrilled you acknowledged their existence in that way-it validates them-your validating/qualifying them not the other way around. Fear of approach comes from worrying her opinion can change you or that others are judging you-even if she approached you, that would still be your mind set and with a mind set like that your not gonna get as far as you like with the woman you want anyway
1. There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
