08-19-2014, 05:45 AM
(This post was last modified: 08-19-2014, 05:47 AM by MasterEnki.)
I don't think clubs are a good place for anyone to find / attract people for dates.
Clubs tend to have a culture / vibes towards hooking-up / sex.
If you want dates, maybe find / practice some hobbies that you can share with guys (if you haven't already).
Then, go to places that are devoted to those hobbies, and you should have a niche to meet guys that you can have harmony with.
If you can meet / attract some guys with similar hobbies, you should be able to have decent dates with them (you may be able to have dates that revolve around certain hobbies).
Also, the advice about different types of guys is fairly accurate.
Me and my friends are a great example:
Me - I'm looking for FWB(s) / Casual Relationship(s).
AJ- Has a long-term girlfriend (and a kid with her).
MM- Married (and a kid with her)
LS- Has one night stands (but not FWBs / no relationship)
GM - Has one night stands (he may be interested in something long-term though?)
Clubs tend to have a culture / vibes towards hooking-up / sex.
If you want dates, maybe find / practice some hobbies that you can share with guys (if you haven't already).
Then, go to places that are devoted to those hobbies, and you should have a niche to meet guys that you can have harmony with.
If you can meet / attract some guys with similar hobbies, you should be able to have decent dates with them (you may be able to have dates that revolve around certain hobbies).
Also, the advice about different types of guys is fairly accurate.
Me and my friends are a great example:
Me - I'm looking for FWB(s) / Casual Relationship(s).
AJ- Has a long-term girlfriend (and a kid with her).
MM- Married (and a kid with her)
LS- Has one night stands (but not FWBs / no relationship)
GM - Has one night stands (he may be interested in something long-term though?)
