Thank you so much for these awesome replies and even one from Shannon. Thank you for making this, Shannon.
I was in a club on Saturday night and I WAS wearing pheromones too but I also got a LOT more attention than usual in there, definitely.
I had this guy try to hit on me several times. He was cute but not enough of my type but I was nice without leading him on. He wanted me to teach him to dance like me and he asked my name and kept trying to dance with me. I had another good looking guy make mutual eye contact and hold it a couple of times but then saw he had a girlfriend so I backed off.
And a third guy said - they played a rock song and for fun I did head banging with my long hair ha ha! - and after that he looked at me and said, sincerely, "You have LOVELY hair." He had a Ronald McDonald wig on so I patted it and said "Thank you."
Also now have an Argentinian guy from the dating site wanting to meet for a drink he also said "or my apartment" but I said, no, a bar.
I WAS getting online attention anyway, but he's a new one.
The main difference at the moment, like I said is the eye contact. Guys maintaining it more rather than looking away - or looking scared.
Maybe it's that I am feeling some extra confidence from the subliminal and they sense that and THEY feel more confident, I don't know. It's like I seem a little bit more approachable. I'm a friendly person, but I know some guys can be shy or they've had a lot of rejection.
Online I've messaged more guys and a bit less put off by rejection than I was.
But I had my ex boyfriend take a new girlfriend who I didn't even know about on holiday, found out yesterday and felt quite upset as he used to cancel dates on me and stand me up. So at first I beat myself up a lot and blamed myself and thought I was be ugly and all that kind of crap.
But I soon had people trying to cheer me up and this guy I text he CAN be quite sexual but last night it was like ha ha like a dial had been turned up.
In FACT, he HASN'T been sexual in his texts for a while. He WAS at one stage and then it was platonic. Then flirty but last night he got quite sexual even saying about what he'd do if I came over and talking about am I free to meet next week. We've had this just texting thing for weeks but unless he's lying we ARE attracted well to the photos at least and we make each other laugh and great text connection.
I don't know if we will ever meet we nearly did once. Anyway, he had me laughing and laughing away and then we both started using all this innuendo but I was doing it too, flirting more and being more suggestive, actually usually I'm scared to flirt with him cos I've always been unsure if he finds me attractive enough and what he wants but at the start, I was just as flirty and as many double meanings, way more than usual and it really escalated. I didn't think about this at the time but with him I usually hold back a lot on that as I've never known where i stood although he's said he thinks I am "stunning" and all that sort of thing before.
So that's definitely a change. I'll usually flirt with him and then apologize or keep it platonic, even though I think he's got a rather gorgeous face, is smart and funny and caring to me (well, on the phone.)
I was - I probably shouldn't admit this! - even trying to arouse him cos he did it to me the little tease and he wanted me to do it right back so I did! (Can't believe I just admitted that!)
I think I'd like to meet him in person cos we've chatted so long though I have other guys interested too. But, regardless, he got me laughing then laughing hysterically, then feeling turned on, then when I was trying to get HIM turned on (yes, I succeeded apparently YAY!) I was in this playful revenge mode and trying to be creative. So, it definitely got my mind off the ex boyfriend taking the new girlfriend on holiday and into a much happier state and raised my vibration and erm (this is naughty but it shows you what I mean!) raised something else on him APPARENTLY.
(Don't worry, I promise not to get too graphic.)
Oh, Shannon, what are you doing to me, I already HAVE a high sex drive!
Ha ha.
I had this other guy chatting to me, well a couple of them but one of them doing this hinting that the other guys are crap and he's "the One" (he's NOT the One, he's a whiney baby but he's ok to chat to at times and I am trying to give him tips for HIS love life.)
The ex taking the new girl away while when I was the girl I got cancelled on and stood up has prompted me to get the attract the romantic, wealthy lover subliminal too cos it is PAYBACK time. I've thought about getting that one as an experiment anyway. I want to try a couple of ones in that series, including the boyfriend one, when I am ready for that, which I'm not just yet. But I have a couple of other titles from that series in mind to try out and I will also eventually try some other non love life ones too.
So that's my update.
(I hope it's not too sexual and I promise not to get too graphic on ya!)
I was in a club on Saturday night and I WAS wearing pheromones too but I also got a LOT more attention than usual in there, definitely.
I had this guy try to hit on me several times. He was cute but not enough of my type but I was nice without leading him on. He wanted me to teach him to dance like me and he asked my name and kept trying to dance with me. I had another good looking guy make mutual eye contact and hold it a couple of times but then saw he had a girlfriend so I backed off.
And a third guy said - they played a rock song and for fun I did head banging with my long hair ha ha! - and after that he looked at me and said, sincerely, "You have LOVELY hair." He had a Ronald McDonald wig on so I patted it and said "Thank you."
Also now have an Argentinian guy from the dating site wanting to meet for a drink he also said "or my apartment" but I said, no, a bar.
I WAS getting online attention anyway, but he's a new one.
The main difference at the moment, like I said is the eye contact. Guys maintaining it more rather than looking away - or looking scared.
Maybe it's that I am feeling some extra confidence from the subliminal and they sense that and THEY feel more confident, I don't know. It's like I seem a little bit more approachable. I'm a friendly person, but I know some guys can be shy or they've had a lot of rejection.
Online I've messaged more guys and a bit less put off by rejection than I was.
But I had my ex boyfriend take a new girlfriend who I didn't even know about on holiday, found out yesterday and felt quite upset as he used to cancel dates on me and stand me up. So at first I beat myself up a lot and blamed myself and thought I was be ugly and all that kind of crap.
But I soon had people trying to cheer me up and this guy I text he CAN be quite sexual but last night it was like ha ha like a dial had been turned up.
In FACT, he HASN'T been sexual in his texts for a while. He WAS at one stage and then it was platonic. Then flirty but last night he got quite sexual even saying about what he'd do if I came over and talking about am I free to meet next week. We've had this just texting thing for weeks but unless he's lying we ARE attracted well to the photos at least and we make each other laugh and great text connection.
I don't know if we will ever meet we nearly did once. Anyway, he had me laughing and laughing away and then we both started using all this innuendo but I was doing it too, flirting more and being more suggestive, actually usually I'm scared to flirt with him cos I've always been unsure if he finds me attractive enough and what he wants but at the start, I was just as flirty and as many double meanings, way more than usual and it really escalated. I didn't think about this at the time but with him I usually hold back a lot on that as I've never known where i stood although he's said he thinks I am "stunning" and all that sort of thing before.
So that's definitely a change. I'll usually flirt with him and then apologize or keep it platonic, even though I think he's got a rather gorgeous face, is smart and funny and caring to me (well, on the phone.)
I was - I probably shouldn't admit this! - even trying to arouse him cos he did it to me the little tease and he wanted me to do it right back so I did! (Can't believe I just admitted that!)
I think I'd like to meet him in person cos we've chatted so long though I have other guys interested too. But, regardless, he got me laughing then laughing hysterically, then feeling turned on, then when I was trying to get HIM turned on (yes, I succeeded apparently YAY!) I was in this playful revenge mode and trying to be creative. So, it definitely got my mind off the ex boyfriend taking the new girlfriend on holiday and into a much happier state and raised my vibration and erm (this is naughty but it shows you what I mean!) raised something else on him APPARENTLY.
(Don't worry, I promise not to get too graphic.)
Oh, Shannon, what are you doing to me, I already HAVE a high sex drive!
Ha ha.
I had this other guy chatting to me, well a couple of them but one of them doing this hinting that the other guys are crap and he's "the One" (he's NOT the One, he's a whiney baby but he's ok to chat to at times and I am trying to give him tips for HIS love life.)
The ex taking the new girl away while when I was the girl I got cancelled on and stood up has prompted me to get the attract the romantic, wealthy lover subliminal too cos it is PAYBACK time. I've thought about getting that one as an experiment anyway. I want to try a couple of ones in that series, including the boyfriend one, when I am ready for that, which I'm not just yet. But I have a couple of other titles from that series in mind to try out and I will also eventually try some other non love life ones too.
So that's my update.
(I hope it's not too sexual and I promise not to get too graphic on ya!)
