Where did BIATBW go?

[Shannon]

Based on my research into the program's results, that is probably not the main factor in the situation. It may be having an effect, but I think the main factors seem to be that guys aren't realizing that women, hot and bothered for you or not, usually still will not initiate beyond giving you looks or other subtle IOIs - and, they suffer from "Male Pattern Blindness" - which means they don't see the results for quite some time, or at all in many cases.

The alternative is a multi-stage set, where I can get everything in in smaller chunks and thus give more impact.