08-08-2014, 11:40 AM
So what has all this to do with Kevin, Afzgal and SM3? In Kevins case it was the opposite of a crush. He should look good, but he doesn't, because his beta personality caused the RAS of my sister to focus on all of his Ugly aspects, to a degree where he looks ugly overall in spite of his muscles. And even in spite of the fact that he looked hot to her... before she got to know him.
I know this distortion was pretty strong for me as a man, but I can only imagine what impact it has on the perception of a woman as that's the PRIMARY way she get's attracted?
It doesn't matter how good you look, as soon as she get's to know you, she will think of you as hot as her RAS allows her to. But the opposite is also true, if you're ugly but find a way to get her to know you, her RAS makes her blind to your ugliness.
So looks don't help, do they? Yes they DO help to attract woman, but they don't help the woman to feel attracted, they help you to feel ATTRACTIVE.
Most people need societys permission to feel attractive and with looks, money or status you got that permission. This causes you to feel free and get into your male polarity and exhibit all the attractive qualities like high self esteem, good body language, even your pheromones start to change.
But there are also people who don't need that permission to feel attractive. There's always an ugly guy that you don't know how he got such a hot girl. But when you talk to him you see he's behaving totally alpha, is free and always says what he has on his mind.
And that is what SM3 is doing. It's basically a cheat code, that hacks your brain into giving you the permission to feel attractive which is the real cause that makes women attracted. Do you think it is a concidence that all the SM3 journals report in the first 3 stages how attractive the User feels and mostly inner changes and ONLY AFTER that phase the Woman Shannon programmed the external manifestation in Stage 4,5 and 6? He did this very intentionally.
I'm going even as far as saying, looks aren't more than a CUE to a being a free attractive man. Getting big muscles isn't easy, many attributes are needed for that, usually attributes of a real man, like determination, being on your purpose, making no excuses etc.
So to a woman such physics could be a cue to find a man who has these attributes. That's why they get interested when a good looking man appears, because it is a cue to a man that could arouse her.
But at the end what matters is, does he have those attributes or not, is he in his male polarity or not? If he isn't, all the cues don't help you, as they just get disproved by your behaviour, speaking patterns and even your aura. Sure, go to facebook or tinder or any online dating site and you can get some attention with your looks... UNTIL they meet you to be dissappointed in their expectations (if they didn't already see through you when you were exchanging messages)
And I'm speaking of experience. I have pretty good genes (as I can see on my sister she is tossing alpha guys left and right with her looks) and I got approached by girls I didn't know regularly online messaging me and stuff. (it wasn't a dating site, it was an alternative to facebook back then when FB wasn't popular where I lived). But back then I was too shy to do anything with the attention I got from girls. I could fake being alpha as long as we were messaging but I never dared to meet them in person because they would see I'm not the person they imagined me to be. I already could tell from their messages they come with such a high expectation I could never fullfill that und avoided them.
But the girls that knew me, weren't shaken at all by my looks, they already knew how I attractive I really was and didn't need my looks as a cue to guess my attractiveness.
Fastforward to know, it's almost the opposite. I got rid of that too-good-to be-true goodlooking image of myself and shaved my head. But though this time I don't match society's definiton of "handsome" as well as a few years ago I FEEL more attractive and the hottest girls I got so far was a year ago when I had a big gut. Now I'm getting fitter again, but because I like the extra testosterone in my bloodstream that makes me horny, productive and happy all the time which of course alo helps with woman (better than the "good looking" muscles themsleves)
I know this distortion was pretty strong for me as a man, but I can only imagine what impact it has on the perception of a woman as that's the PRIMARY way she get's attracted?
It doesn't matter how good you look, as soon as she get's to know you, she will think of you as hot as her RAS allows her to. But the opposite is also true, if you're ugly but find a way to get her to know you, her RAS makes her blind to your ugliness.
So looks don't help, do they? Yes they DO help to attract woman, but they don't help the woman to feel attracted, they help you to feel ATTRACTIVE.
Most people need societys permission to feel attractive and with looks, money or status you got that permission. This causes you to feel free and get into your male polarity and exhibit all the attractive qualities like high self esteem, good body language, even your pheromones start to change.
But there are also people who don't need that permission to feel attractive. There's always an ugly guy that you don't know how he got such a hot girl. But when you talk to him you see he's behaving totally alpha, is free and always says what he has on his mind.
And that is what SM3 is doing. It's basically a cheat code, that hacks your brain into giving you the permission to feel attractive which is the real cause that makes women attracted. Do you think it is a concidence that all the SM3 journals report in the first 3 stages how attractive the User feels and mostly inner changes and ONLY AFTER that phase the Woman Shannon programmed the external manifestation in Stage 4,5 and 6? He did this very intentionally.
I'm going even as far as saying, looks aren't more than a CUE to a being a free attractive man. Getting big muscles isn't easy, many attributes are needed for that, usually attributes of a real man, like determination, being on your purpose, making no excuses etc.
So to a woman such physics could be a cue to find a man who has these attributes. That's why they get interested when a good looking man appears, because it is a cue to a man that could arouse her.
But at the end what matters is, does he have those attributes or not, is he in his male polarity or not? If he isn't, all the cues don't help you, as they just get disproved by your behaviour, speaking patterns and even your aura. Sure, go to facebook or tinder or any online dating site and you can get some attention with your looks... UNTIL they meet you to be dissappointed in their expectations (if they didn't already see through you when you were exchanging messages)
And I'm speaking of experience. I have pretty good genes (as I can see on my sister she is tossing alpha guys left and right with her looks) and I got approached by girls I didn't know regularly online messaging me and stuff. (it wasn't a dating site, it was an alternative to facebook back then when FB wasn't popular where I lived). But back then I was too shy to do anything with the attention I got from girls. I could fake being alpha as long as we were messaging but I never dared to meet them in person because they would see I'm not the person they imagined me to be. I already could tell from their messages they come with such a high expectation I could never fullfill that und avoided them.
But the girls that knew me, weren't shaken at all by my looks, they already knew how I attractive I really was and didn't need my looks as a cue to guess my attractiveness.
Fastforward to know, it's almost the opposite. I got rid of that too-good-to be-true goodlooking image of myself and shaved my head. But though this time I don't match society's definiton of "handsome" as well as a few years ago I FEEL more attractive and the hottest girls I got so far was a year ago when I had a big gut. Now I'm getting fitter again, but because I like the extra testosterone in my bloodstream that makes me horny, productive and happy all the time which of course alo helps with woman (better than the "good looking" muscles themsleves)