UB's SM 3 2014

[Uncle Bob]

Yes, I've had the exact same experience. Its interesting. I've thought women are probably afraid of seeming too easy and that we might not respect them because of it or whatever.. but I've got to say the best quality women I've been with to date have not put up that much of a struggle. In fact, they've been very open about it and it just never was an issue. And that definitely did not lower my respect towards them, quite the opposite actually.

I know we as men are supposed to set the tone that "sex is normal", but if the woman feels she needs to put up all kinds of barriers for sex, then we are put into to position/frame that we have to do something to *get* sex from her, which destroys the natural vibe of it and, IMO, actually works to objectify her in my mind whereas before she was more human (natural).

Yes, I agree. Same here regarding respect and quality. Actually I'd say they were not measurable on a 10 scale, as there was the absence of issues you would have had to "ninja" around in other cases. Even after years I totally respect them and there are good vibes towards them ( and vice-versa). Even in my dreams, obviously No objects, they felt more like partners, family etc.