07-31-2014, 11:11 PM
This might not be it, but man something new happened to me. I don't have a journal so I'm going to post here. Speculating this could be the surprise Shannon has in store for us which is why this is going here. Let me tell you, I was DEFINITELY surprised when it happened to me. So surprised I was just absolutely stunned. And I don't mean amazed, but literally speechless and confused - stunned.
I just went out to a bar tonight with some friends. I'm not the type of person that goes to bars at all. I don't really drink all that much alcohol and we were there to check out this band so we could get our groove on.
I arrive and greet my friends that are already there. Within minutes of doing so, and for the first time in my life a woman came up to me and approached me while I was with my friends. She opened with "are you guys going to go up there and dance?" I was so confused because I looked at my friends and then looked back at her thinking that someone in our group of 8 people knew her.
I'm thinking to myself "do I know you" and not showing it on my face. In fact I'm not sure what was happening on my face. Again I was completely shocked that someone came up to me in front of all my friends and tried to start a conversation with me.
Being a bit inexperienced with women, I didn't realize she was approaching me. She ended up leaving because I was just giving this dumbfounded look. My female friend (married) came up to me and said "DID YOU JUST REJECT THAT GIRL?"
Turns out now that I think about it, I totally did.
TL;DR girl approached me at a bar and I was so shocked because I've never had a woman do that to me before. I think this is the surprise that girls approach you.
I just went out to a bar tonight with some friends. I'm not the type of person that goes to bars at all. I don't really drink all that much alcohol and we were there to check out this band so we could get our groove on.
I arrive and greet my friends that are already there. Within minutes of doing so, and for the first time in my life a woman came up to me and approached me while I was with my friends. She opened with "are you guys going to go up there and dance?" I was so confused because I looked at my friends and then looked back at her thinking that someone in our group of 8 people knew her.
I'm thinking to myself "do I know you" and not showing it on my face. In fact I'm not sure what was happening on my face. Again I was completely shocked that someone came up to me in front of all my friends and tried to start a conversation with me.
Being a bit inexperienced with women, I didn't realize she was approaching me. She ended up leaving because I was just giving this dumbfounded look. My female friend (married) came up to me and said "DID YOU JUST REJECT THAT GIRL?"
Turns out now that I think about it, I totally did.
TL;DR girl approached me at a bar and I was so shocked because I've never had a woman do that to me before. I think this is the surprise that girls approach you.
