07-06-2014, 08:15 PM
(07-06-2014, 07:17 PM)Artemis Wrote: I've been going very slow in terms of adjusting to things and I know I could go faster, but these damn fears are holding me back. I've been making more progress in the last few weeks of using this stage than in any other period of my life but still progress is ridiculously slow for me because I'm unable to express myself/am scared of changing/want to preserve the old me and move into the new me.
Is your progress really slow? There is a thing in business and personal growth called the flywheel effect. A huge flywheel takes a lot of effort to get it to start spinning. As it starts to spin faster (growth becomes more streamlined) the amount of effort required to keep it spinning decreases and after a while it takes a small pulse of effort to keep it going. You're still in the effort phase. Soon you'll be flying in every aspect of your life! Just keep on going