I wrote a long story and my ipad died before I posted. With that said it basically boiled down to her not arguing with me, but accepting my terms of her never calling me for a booty call unless we develop that kind of relationship. Her understanding that I will not be attracted to her from this point on no matter what happens and I will treat her as such. That I will treat her as a utilitarian person until she tries to develop a friendship with me, etc.
I'm going to expand on this a little more as I don't think that I really answered your question FREAK4LIFE. The following morning after that booty call I texted her to see if she wanted to hangout. I believed that this would progress. When I met up with her she wasn't wearing a bra so her nipples were poking out and then she stone walled me. She said that she never has sex or does anything unless she is drunk. Also that the text message "I'm lonely and horny" wasn't really an offer for anything. I called her bullshit on this and she changed her story when I repeated her text message. We did breakfast together and as we spent a bit of time together I noticed that she was checking her phone at regular intervals and I asked her what was up. Ten min convo later, she had brought me up to speed about the dude that hadn't called her in three days that she had been seeing (unbeknowest to me). I changed the subject a few times and she brought it back. I got up to leave and she said "leaving cuz I won't **** you?" That's where the conversation turned to her being utilitarian and how we were laying in boundaries. With all of this said I have since realized that if I was as messed about it as she was, drunk outta my skull (she doesn't do it any other way) and I had a "sure bet" I would probably go for it too.
I'm going to expand on this a little more as I don't think that I really answered your question FREAK4LIFE. The following morning after that booty call I texted her to see if she wanted to hangout. I believed that this would progress. When I met up with her she wasn't wearing a bra so her nipples were poking out and then she stone walled me. She said that she never has sex or does anything unless she is drunk. Also that the text message "I'm lonely and horny" wasn't really an offer for anything. I called her bullshit on this and she changed her story when I repeated her text message. We did breakfast together and as we spent a bit of time together I noticed that she was checking her phone at regular intervals and I asked her what was up. Ten min convo later, she had brought me up to speed about the dude that hadn't called her in three days that she had been seeing (unbeknowest to me). I changed the subject a few times and she brought it back. I got up to leave and she said "leaving cuz I won't **** you?" That's where the conversation turned to her being utilitarian and how we were laying in boundaries. With all of this said I have since realized that if I was as messed about it as she was, drunk outta my skull (she doesn't do it any other way) and I had a "sure bet" I would probably go for it too.
