06-02-2014, 01:37 PM
(06-02-2014, 06:31 AM)maniac360 Wrote: If you want to discover if your shyness is due to fear or not, test it out with Absolute self confidence (ASC). It's free and a great choice for beginner here, don't think it's less powerful because it's free ( it's very powerful).
I think OAA would be a great choice too but I never saw someone choose this one for a first sub.
Oh! I see. Well, my thinking was that it will be a first sub for me and I am not even sure of the results, so wanted to try out with something that was single stage to begin with and not too dear.
I do realise that ASC is free, but my perception of absolute self confidence was that we're talking about almost arrogance here. While I wanted to work on something inside me that will make me feel comfortable in my own skin doing anything - be it approaching women (yes, single at the moment), talking to strangers, colleagues, doing and saying things where I feel I am being judged or I might be judged.
Do you still think I should go with ASC instead of OAA or OGSF? I haven't gone through the ASC journals you mentioned, yet. I will go through them shortly.
Thanks for your response. I appreciate it.