Deservedness

[IronSmooth]

I'm encountering more and more women that just want "dick", ahah nothing wrong with that... Rule number one is treat people the way you would like to be treated. Incorporate that into your persona and the way you are towards women and your limited beliefs will release. Be in touch with your feminine side is how a woman would describe it.

Thanks

Fonzy

Ah yes, I definitely try to live by that. Like for example respect is huge for me. So i show respect to everyone, until they show disrespect. I have morals, i have integrity. I love righteousness and fairness.
Trouble is have more trouble finding a girl that wants something long term, then to have a quickie. Makes me a bit sad. I suppose its my fault by making myself look like the stereotypical "player". Don't know how else to describe it.

I love the quote "Be the kind of person you want to be around".
And that has worked great for me in attracting the right friends, outgoing, lighthearted, a bit of troublemakers. But i cant seem to open up like that around people i just met, especially women. Is it fear? I hope so, because im about 12 days into OF and its been kicking my butt.
I tend to swear a lot, get angry at little things, annoyed by minute details, and just negative all the time. Lol im a dick right now.

Edit: How would one get in touch with their feminine side? Just start crying? lol