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[richlife70]

Shannon you are single right now, aren't you? Then you will have to built attract your second perfect lover. Too many people in the whole world to believe that there is only one.

In the grand scheme of things, and how things work, finding your perfect lover is made much easier because even though perfect is an absolute, it is possible to divide up a second into an infinity of slices. There are other perfect lovers, and their perfection depends on your current growth and theirs, but also on factors that do not and cannot change. So there is more than one.

The one who comes is the one who is best suited to you and your needs at the time of calling. Some of the factors involved mean that a perfect lover can remain such all through one's life in a purely sexual physical way, while the rest (emotions, etc.) shifts and changes in ways that make the person more or less compatible as they grow. It depends on which factor the "perfection" was based on when the selection was made: one that changes, or one that remains static.

Hi Shannon - or anyone else who can help. :-)

This is my first post, but I've spent months scouring the forums and educating myself on the many subs and the testimonials from other posters. The information on here is invaluable and I cannot thank everyone enough for your willingness to share your experiences so the rest of us can benefit from it.

I'm just freshly out of a 3+ year live-in relationship that ended because he cheated and thought perhaps using EHPRA might be the best way to to move on by using it for at least 32 days. It's only since I started using EHPRA and the first time I did have a dream and even though I cannot quite recall what it was about, it did make an impact on me. Nothing special happened on night two. Tonight would be the third use of the sub.

The thing is, I have not been feeling too miserable.....which could be because we don't travel in the same circles and I am not really seeing him around. I did a whole bunch of crying in the first week and while I understand that I will have to grieve the end of the relationship, I set myself a limit of two weeks to get myself together to start back on the road to making myself and my needs priorities one through ten.

I am blessed (and cursed) with the impatient gene and always looking ahead, so I am wondering if I should switch to ASC for 90 days instead of continuing with EHPRA. Also, because I am in my mid-40's and I am now ready for my next coupling to lead to something more permanent, my plan is to purchase a sub to attract a relationship that hopefully leads to marriage.

Is my timeframe a bit too ambitious? Grateful for any comments, suggestions, guidance on this plan of mine?