03-23-2014, 04:58 AM
(03-22-2014, 11:02 PM)AlphaReal Wrote: I am sure Rayhon is talking from a different mindset, bold girls v/s always needy girls, girls are expected to filter out guys, after reading enough books on this, women perceive other women who are easily 'laid', as loose, while with us guys it is opposite, we look up to guys who sleep around.
Women have the need to be the prize and give the guy enough resistance and testing to see if he is the quality guy deserving of her feminity.
"Filtering out" is usually done via shit tests, not by using sex like some damn carrot. I assure you, if I have not slept with a woman after the 3rd date, she is gone.
As for the prize, it's exactly that mentality that most guys buy into hence why most guys are AFC's, Betas, whatever. The girl wants to be a princess, but she wants to be ruled by a king, not the common peasant.
(03-22-2014, 11:02 PM)AlphaReal Wrote: I realised why some of my earlier gfs in the past 'distilled' out some of their girl friends from their girl circle over some petty reason, while the main reason was the girl was hanging out with just about any guy that needed her.
Ofcourse we guys too need a good challenge and quality girl than a needy or easily available girl. Speak from experience
Those girls were prolly just jealous. Any girl that is "on the call" for any guy is needy yes, but there IS a reason the guys keep calling her back, and not the other girls.
(03-22-2014, 11:02 PM)AlphaReal Wrote: @InTheZone
Actually that faq over SM v/s WM seems to be written considering the old SM v2, the new SM3, has OGSF, some added social thing and the aura thing.
After asking some of my friends, and reading this journal with jimbob's WM review, SM is making a guy a woman magnet with lots of flirty girls and friendly girls, while WM seems to be attracting a lot of sex. Kinda confusing, besides I love the part in SM which deals with automatic repelling of problem girls and girls with STDs.
All this talk about SM vs. WM is making me wonder if I should do SM 3 again. Theoretically, you'll become a better socializer once you have more confidence, and I assume girls clambering at your walls will boost your confidence in a big way.
For me though, what I'm gonna do is define what I want my life to be like, and then see which program fits in with my lifestyle.