I am getting out lately, and noticing some really odd things happening. I had another amazing experience with a woman today, and this time she was flat out stunningly beautiful. I mean, think Winnie from The Wonder Years, only with a magnum chest, fuller lips, somewhat dusky skin, and more much more sultry eyes.
Not only did I happen across her, but I met her because she was in the middle of a photoshoot at the same time and place I was in a photoshoot, and she kept showing up where I was going right before I did. I was supposed to be having portraits made of me for my photography business card, but I somehow ended up having my uncle (who was shooting portraits of me) start shooting this girl instead, and taking over for the photographer she had with her (which I was initially embarrassed by, as it seemed very rude to me). Then after wandering away to say, "Hey, I am not going to do that," I wandered over again and saw that he was actually directing the shoot. So I asked her, "Do you mind if I shoot you also?", to which she replied, "No, feel free, go right ahead."
It wasn't very long before I was directing the shoot, instead... and wow. What a beautiful and photogenic girl. She's not perfect, but wow. I can't believe how many shots of her came out so good. I was shooting at f/2.8 to blow out the background, so occasionally I would have one eye in focus and not the other, or accidentally focus on her nose and have her face be soft. But aside from that, for the most part, I got great results, and so did my uncle.
She was nervous at first, and the insecurities started coming out. She was too fat, her feet were dirty, she wasn't dressed in nice enough clothes, she didn't know how to pose... and then I stopped shooting and walked over to her and smiled, and said, "_____, just relax. It's okay. Let the artist decide whether you are fat or wearing the wrong clothes. Let the photographer pose you. Remember, that's my job as photographer when I am working with an inexperienced model. It's okay. I have to pose most of my models. Just relax, trust in me and let me take responsibility for how well this goes. We'll get the shot together."
What a difference that made! She relaxed, and started having fun. She started giving me even more incredible expressions and shots. By the end of the shoot (which I stopped because I overheard her friend say she thought the model was getting tired of shooting), she was wanting to pay me. Here I hijacked a shoot that my uncle had hijacked before me, and offered her a trade-for-CD deal, where she would model for me in exchange for CDs of the images, but no... she wanted to pay me.
Not only was she a natural, but she was also responding to me as a man. I could tell, because she was paying attention mostly to me, as soon as I showed up. There was an almost instant connection, and chemistry was flowing between us like invisible lightning. She is going to make one hell of a model, and funny enough, she wants to be a photographer. Imagine that... I may just have a protege now. Or an assistant... on top of model. How... hmmm. Perfect? This seems suspiciously too perfect for it to be chance.
I think she's attracted to me. I find myself attracted to her, as well, but of course I can't be professional with her and personal too. Sometimes being a professional photographer sucks!
Anyway, she and I hit it off beautifully, and I get the feeling that she and I will be connected in an important way for a long time to come. I don't know how yet, but this seems like one of those destined happenings to me. I think it's happening through the alpha male, Woman Magnet and the approach anxiety subs... the woman magnet is definitely attracting women into my life and making me perfectly comfortable, confident and playful with them. And they love it. They're eating it up. It's like all of a sudden I have become a... well, a woman magnet. lol
I am really enjoying the hell out of this! Bring on the beautiful women, there's lots of fun to go around! Yeah, let's do this! The nice thing is, I don't really care if I end up doing anything with them, so it's even more fun for us both.
Luv luv LOVE the woman magnet program. But it definitely needs alpha first.
Not only did I happen across her, but I met her because she was in the middle of a photoshoot at the same time and place I was in a photoshoot, and she kept showing up where I was going right before I did. I was supposed to be having portraits made of me for my photography business card, but I somehow ended up having my uncle (who was shooting portraits of me) start shooting this girl instead, and taking over for the photographer she had with her (which I was initially embarrassed by, as it seemed very rude to me). Then after wandering away to say, "Hey, I am not going to do that," I wandered over again and saw that he was actually directing the shoot. So I asked her, "Do you mind if I shoot you also?", to which she replied, "No, feel free, go right ahead."
It wasn't very long before I was directing the shoot, instead... and wow. What a beautiful and photogenic girl. She's not perfect, but wow. I can't believe how many shots of her came out so good. I was shooting at f/2.8 to blow out the background, so occasionally I would have one eye in focus and not the other, or accidentally focus on her nose and have her face be soft. But aside from that, for the most part, I got great results, and so did my uncle.
She was nervous at first, and the insecurities started coming out. She was too fat, her feet were dirty, she wasn't dressed in nice enough clothes, she didn't know how to pose... and then I stopped shooting and walked over to her and smiled, and said, "_____, just relax. It's okay. Let the artist decide whether you are fat or wearing the wrong clothes. Let the photographer pose you. Remember, that's my job as photographer when I am working with an inexperienced model. It's okay. I have to pose most of my models. Just relax, trust in me and let me take responsibility for how well this goes. We'll get the shot together."
What a difference that made! She relaxed, and started having fun. She started giving me even more incredible expressions and shots. By the end of the shoot (which I stopped because I overheard her friend say she thought the model was getting tired of shooting), she was wanting to pay me. Here I hijacked a shoot that my uncle had hijacked before me, and offered her a trade-for-CD deal, where she would model for me in exchange for CDs of the images, but no... she wanted to pay me.
Not only was she a natural, but she was also responding to me as a man. I could tell, because she was paying attention mostly to me, as soon as I showed up. There was an almost instant connection, and chemistry was flowing between us like invisible lightning. She is going to make one hell of a model, and funny enough, she wants to be a photographer. Imagine that... I may just have a protege now. Or an assistant... on top of model. How... hmmm. Perfect? This seems suspiciously too perfect for it to be chance.
I think she's attracted to me. I find myself attracted to her, as well, but of course I can't be professional with her and personal too. Sometimes being a professional photographer sucks!
Anyway, she and I hit it off beautifully, and I get the feeling that she and I will be connected in an important way for a long time to come. I don't know how yet, but this seems like one of those destined happenings to me. I think it's happening through the alpha male, Woman Magnet and the approach anxiety subs... the woman magnet is definitely attracting women into my life and making me perfectly comfortable, confident and playful with them. And they love it. They're eating it up. It's like all of a sudden I have become a... well, a woman magnet. lol
I am really enjoying the hell out of this! Bring on the beautiful women, there's lots of fun to go around! Yeah, let's do this! The nice thing is, I don't really care if I end up doing anything with them, so it's even more fun for us both.
Luv luv LOVE the woman magnet program. But it definitely needs alpha first.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
