10-10-2010, 11:15 AM
(10-10-2010, 07:32 AM)Shannon Wrote: I am noticing this as well - I didn't realize it before because I spent so much time lately in my own little world dealing with my emotions, dealing with taking care of estate business, dealing with trying to handle this business, dealing with helping family... when did I have time to actually get out of the house and interact? I didn't. But when I did yesterday, BAM! Instant results. I have to say, I'm also enjoying the effects woman magnet is having on me. I don't care if I get anywhere with women, because I'm just having a good time and playing a social game with them. Its as if I am inviting them to a game of silliness or playfulness. "Let's have fun flirting, and who cares where it goes." Or "Hey, come hang out with me, let's talk and laugh and go do something fun together."
As designed, the woman magnet - when used after alpha set - is producing a fun, playful, happy, upbeat guy who has no specific goal or agenda, but who is just being naturally fun and playful with women. If I have fun, I win! If I don't - next! Someone is gonna be willing to play my social fun game with me, right? And since there's no ulterior motive or goal besides fun, I'm relaxed and she's relaxed, and that's when magic happens. Everyone loves to spend time with people who make them laugh and feel good. And then there's the manifestation part...
I'm definitely going to have to get out more. It's just too much fun.
By the way, I have started noting that when I go out recently, I am getting a lot more obvious attention from women. Not all of them - but the ones who respond with interest do things like stare at me with surprising aggression from across the room, and if I don't get up and walk over, they will wander past and smile with their whole face (eyes and mouth) several times, inviting me to say hello. It's been quite interesting.
Yeah, it is frighteningly instant. They melt before I do or say anything. Like you said, everyone is relaxed and happy. Everything is light and not a big deal. It's like a lack of all expectations; the chips fall where the chips fall. I went into the set thinking that it would make me have Women on my mind; be focused about succeeding with them; etc. I should have know better though, it isn't like that at all. There are no goals, only possibilities. Infinite possibilities, but I don't dwell on them. I just enjoy the moment.
Quote:I concur WildFlower i am not sure if am charismatic or not. My first girlfriend i had back in high school said one of the major reasons she was attracted to me was my charisma. I looked her in the eyes and said really i have charisma O-o.
Not a day goes by where I don't get called quirky. Because of my quirkiness I have at times been told I have je ne sais quoi; I can't confirm that for myself though. come January I'd be interested in seeing how I respond to the charisma sub. The reason I say this is because I don't have a well defined image of what charisma actually is. I know it but only as it is projected, in it's mysterious, elusive yet palpable form. With for example, Aura of Sexiness, my mind knows what sexy is - or at least it has it's own cultural definition of what it is - so once it's told "your sexy" it knows how to become sexy. With Charisma I think that is less defined within me. As it comes in many shapes and sizes how I'd react to the affirmation "I am Charismatic", I honestly can't say. Women Magnet is definitely increasing my charisma, I can see that on peoples faces so we must intuitively all know how to express it.
“To be normal is the ideal aim of the unsuccessful.” - Carl Jung
