09-28-2010, 05:55 PM
WildFlower i was an ok flirter, i would say below average flirt i got the gist of it but had a hard time trying to keep what i was saying in a flirty way or even just say it with out mumbling.
the transition for me was nothing much for awhile then rough bumpy roads then smooth sailing. it seemed like one week i am still ok at it. Then the next week i am really good at it.One of my friends even said after what took him years to realize how to flirt excellently i seemed to be able to do in a few months... He said he was jealous of how quickly i learned it and said he wished he was a fast learner like me
Granted i did have almost an entire week of nothing but being down on myself. I had flashes of all the girls from first grade to now and how i kept messing up trying to flirt with them. Or i had flashes of girls that were flirting with me and i was oblivious to everything they did. once i realized the memory that my mind was telling me was blocking my success and accepted it and forgave my self I then felt the full force of the sub.
I had gone into a store to buy a drink and then everything with in me wanted to blurt something out to the girl working the register and i did. it wasn't awkward how i said it or jumbled and confusing and she looked me in the eyes and she gave me a big smile and continued flirting back. I could feel that she had interest in me before i said something. This was when i first noticed some change.
I tease women with little to no effort now but i think i may take it to far and just make myself look like a clown. (i get called a silly boy a lot) or not enough sexual energy behind it. The sub has put my thoughts to ease about flirting and now help me to go out and do it. I still have to learn the boundaries with flirting but at least i have better footing on the subject of flirting
the transition for me was nothing much for awhile then rough bumpy roads then smooth sailing. it seemed like one week i am still ok at it. Then the next week i am really good at it.One of my friends even said after what took him years to realize how to flirt excellently i seemed to be able to do in a few months... He said he was jealous of how quickly i learned it and said he wished he was a fast learner like me
Granted i did have almost an entire week of nothing but being down on myself. I had flashes of all the girls from first grade to now and how i kept messing up trying to flirt with them. Or i had flashes of girls that were flirting with me and i was oblivious to everything they did. once i realized the memory that my mind was telling me was blocking my success and accepted it and forgave my self I then felt the full force of the sub.
I had gone into a store to buy a drink and then everything with in me wanted to blurt something out to the girl working the register and i did. it wasn't awkward how i said it or jumbled and confusing and she looked me in the eyes and she gave me a big smile and continued flirting back. I could feel that she had interest in me before i said something. This was when i first noticed some change.
I tease women with little to no effort now but i think i may take it to far and just make myself look like a clown. (i get called a silly boy a lot) or not enough sexual energy behind it. The sub has put my thoughts to ease about flirting and now help me to go out and do it. I still have to learn the boundaries with flirting but at least i have better footing on the subject of flirting
