09-28-2010, 03:02 PM
(09-28-2010, 01:53 PM)Ryan Wrote: I agree that pick-up is bad in the sense that men manipulate women simply to take them home and have sex with them, which I think is what you were getting from my "Sex God" suggestion. My belief, and what I've learned over the year, when you are truly in the moment, there is such thing as a natural, subconscious connection that can be felt non-verbally. I've had this connection with women through eye contact, body language with one another, and actually have experienced it through presence alone. From that point it's only natural things lead to sex, unconsciously, you feel like the two of you are destined to be in bed together and by being in the moment, it will happen. I've been around women I've never met before and many I've dated for the first time who I have had this spark with but I wasn't living in the moment and instead of going with it, I ignored it. Eventually, I came to realize the women felt the same exact thing and wished I would have had sex with them on the spot. Nothing wrong with that, in my opinion, but yes, manipulation is bad, don't use for your own gain.
Inside we are very wild and animalistic but society has put barriers on us which control that. I think it's important, as men, we bring fourth all those animalistic desires. With our mindsets I believe it's only natural we will also bring that out of women.
I absolutely agree.
