12-14-2013, 02:21 AM
Pretty much the approaches u are doing now , is just for you to learn and understand couple things..
you gotta get the confident taken care of ...thats obvious.
like couple weeks ago i was out doing approaches 3-4 girls a day sometimes even 7 .
honestly didnt feel like i learn anything...
but then i look back at my journals that i posted privately about all the details i did.
you actually learn what mistakes you did , and why the girls respond is this way and that way...
its not really about picking up the girl. once you are at that level it will automactically happen.
right now mostly its just making the mistakes and keep making them and growing and learning from it ... sooner or later you will get there when you get there..
it doesnt even have to be "approaches " it can also be just socializing ...as long as you intent is there and you are moving things forward , aka taking risks , you are on the right track .
this is where im at as well.
you gotta get the confident taken care of ...thats obvious.
like couple weeks ago i was out doing approaches 3-4 girls a day sometimes even 7 .
honestly didnt feel like i learn anything...
but then i look back at my journals that i posted privately about all the details i did.
you actually learn what mistakes you did , and why the girls respond is this way and that way...
its not really about picking up the girl. once you are at that level it will automactically happen.
right now mostly its just making the mistakes and keep making them and growing and learning from it ... sooner or later you will get there when you get there..
it doesnt even have to be "approaches " it can also be just socializing ...as long as you intent is there and you are moving things forward , aka taking risks , you are on the right track .
this is where im at as well.
I am strong because I've been weak. I am fearless because I've been afraid. I am wise, because I've been foolish.
