12-07-2013, 08:43 AM
A lot of what you just said is ringing true to me, but you sound like you're putting yourself at the mercy of chance/fate, which I am wholly against.
I have had my own trouble the last few days (specifically the respect/love everyone vs. follow what my heart tells me) and I've come up with something that might help me, might not, but I just thought to myself, if I KNEW I would never get a woman ever in my life, how would I act? Would I love everyone and respect them or not?
See, when we take our goal (for me it's women, for you it may be different) and we pit that against what we'd prefer if it wasn't attainable, I find it's easy to just let go of all the things we do to try and achieve that result.
Maybe you just need to let go of trying to get what you want via suggestions and follow your heart more? Sounds cheesy I know, and half of this is guess work. All you can do is go by your experience, and no one knows that better than you.
I have had my own trouble the last few days (specifically the respect/love everyone vs. follow what my heart tells me) and I've come up with something that might help me, might not, but I just thought to myself, if I KNEW I would never get a woman ever in my life, how would I act? Would I love everyone and respect them or not?
See, when we take our goal (for me it's women, for you it may be different) and we pit that against what we'd prefer if it wasn't attainable, I find it's easy to just let go of all the things we do to try and achieve that result.
Maybe you just need to let go of trying to get what you want via suggestions and follow your heart more? Sounds cheesy I know, and half of this is guess work. All you can do is go by your experience, and no one knows that better than you.
