11-22-2013, 08:18 AM
After having a cold shower, trimming my facial hair and getting dressed I walk up the stairs to my room, on the way my mum randomly says the most attractive things a girl sees in a man is a man with purpose and a man who can be secure in himself... Not sure why she said that so I asked why
she then said well I know that's your main focus at the moment, you want a girl. I'm not sure why I felt ashamed in that moment but I replied with well which guy doesn't?
I did some quick tapping on the feelings of shame that I felt... Weird, why and how could she of known or perceived that?
I told my mum about the nice guy book and she said something about living blah blah, I think I need to learn to stop caring about what my mum thinks about me cause I feel held back whenever I listen to her. She said "That's just who your dad is" (about him being a bit of a pushover nice guy) I said no it's what he learned from his father and his own experiences, it's not who he is it's what he's learned to be. Taking the dog for a walk now, I'm going to little things everyday that I don't really feel like doing or want to do (freezing cold shower, walking the dog at the park, cleaning room, taking care of hygiene etc.)
she then said well I know that's your main focus at the moment, you want a girl. I'm not sure why I felt ashamed in that moment but I replied with well which guy doesn't?
I did some quick tapping on the feelings of shame that I felt... Weird, why and how could she of known or perceived that?
I told my mum about the nice guy book and she said something about living blah blah, I think I need to learn to stop caring about what my mum thinks about me cause I feel held back whenever I listen to her. She said "That's just who your dad is" (about him being a bit of a pushover nice guy) I said no it's what he learned from his father and his own experiences, it's not who he is it's what he's learned to be. Taking the dog for a walk now, I'm going to little things everyday that I don't really feel like doing or want to do (freezing cold shower, walking the dog at the park, cleaning room, taking care of hygiene etc.)
