10-14-2013, 05:52 PM
I have made this analogy before, but it's not readily available to link to, so I'll do it again.
AM is rough for some people because the program does not take shit or allow excuses. While you are transitioning from where you started to where AM is taking you, you can compare the process to a passenger jet traveling at 27,000 feet and then changing it's altitude to rise to 36,000 feet.
During the ascent, the plane will travel through different layers of the atmosphere, and the wind in each one may be traveling in entirely different directions - including polar opposite directions.
When the plane is transitioning from one of these layers to another, the area where they meet will be turbulent to the degree in which they differ. So if your original layer (slipstream?) had winds going West at 77 knots, and the new one has winds going East North East at 174 knots, guess what? The area where they meet is going to be pretty turbulent. But, as the plane continues to rise, the turbulence will peak and eventually fade because the craft is now in a new slipstream.
This is all part of the transition process. You're getting the depression because a part of you doesn't want to make some of the changes, but it can't stop them from happening (hopelessness when faced with something both feared and inevitable). You're getting inconsistent signals from women because you're now giving off inconsistent signals. Some of the time, you're advertising "My altitude is 27,000 feet," and some of the time, you're advertising that it's 36,000 feet. HB10's like higher altitude. So when they see it, they respond. But when you're advertising 27,000 feet, they won't.
That's part of why you perceive people as hating you as well. They're getting inconsistent and in-congruent signals and they think you're full of it.
This is a normal, natural part of the process when the time frame of such a magnitude of change is set to so little time. The transition is bumpy, and you have to finish stepping into the new you before you can fully own it and be congruent.
Just keep going. You'll get there.
AM is rough for some people because the program does not take shit or allow excuses. While you are transitioning from where you started to where AM is taking you, you can compare the process to a passenger jet traveling at 27,000 feet and then changing it's altitude to rise to 36,000 feet.
During the ascent, the plane will travel through different layers of the atmosphere, and the wind in each one may be traveling in entirely different directions - including polar opposite directions.
When the plane is transitioning from one of these layers to another, the area where they meet will be turbulent to the degree in which they differ. So if your original layer (slipstream?) had winds going West at 77 knots, and the new one has winds going East North East at 174 knots, guess what? The area where they meet is going to be pretty turbulent. But, as the plane continues to rise, the turbulence will peak and eventually fade because the craft is now in a new slipstream.
This is all part of the transition process. You're getting the depression because a part of you doesn't want to make some of the changes, but it can't stop them from happening (hopelessness when faced with something both feared and inevitable). You're getting inconsistent signals from women because you're now giving off inconsistent signals. Some of the time, you're advertising "My altitude is 27,000 feet," and some of the time, you're advertising that it's 36,000 feet. HB10's like higher altitude. So when they see it, they respond. But when you're advertising 27,000 feet, they won't.
That's part of why you perceive people as hating you as well. They're getting inconsistent and in-congruent signals and they think you're full of it.
This is a normal, natural part of the process when the time frame of such a magnitude of change is set to so little time. The transition is bumpy, and you have to finish stepping into the new you before you can fully own it and be congruent.
Just keep going. You'll get there.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!