05-26-2013, 07:14 AM
(This post was last modified: 05-26-2013, 08:07 AM by rayrocanaldo.)
(05-26-2013, 12:59 AM)Alta Wrote: Hey all, just thought I'd mention that I have done the full Natural Confidence course and it TOTALLY changed my life. The only thing is the beliefs constantly come back for me so I have to repeat them often. The two that come back most for me are "What I have to say is not important" and "People aren't interested in what I have to say". The difference in my level of self-confidence when having these two beleifs compared to not having them is literally like a light switch. It's immediately obvious when a belief has come back for me.
Once you know and understand the process to eliminate a belief (it's basically just NLP but Morty has a very effective way of using it) you can eliminate your own beliefs, but yeah it's finding the darn things in the first place that is the tough bit!! I think that's the main benefit of a private session, as for yourself it's probably a case of not being able to see the forest for the trees.
I think these subs will work much more effectively once all the negative beliefs are gone, I'm a firm believer that when the student is ready, the teacher shows up and I've just discovered this site after working with the Lefkoe method for a couple of years now - kind of like I've wiped the canvas clean and now I'm ready to install some seriously positive programming!
If anyone knows of a belief that causes you not to want to make too much noise or talk too much in a quiet room I'd be very grateful to know what it is
Belief may come back especially if you are more kinesthetic. But if you are visual it could be you have another belief that is connected to the "what I have to say is not important" like " No one cares what I have to say" for example. The possibilities of what your beliefs are are endless.
You not wanting to make noise might be related to a fear. It's impossible to know what the belief is because the possibilities are endless but if you feel fear/anxiety before avoiding "making" noise, it's a fear of something.