Thanks K Train and everyone else.
I'm most of the way through stage 6 now. The women side of things seems to have slowed down a lot but still making good progress in most other areas of life.
I've got a few things on the list to do next. I was thinking of a run through of OGFS as I've been discovering that I have a lot of shame built up which still holds me back in certain situations. From there I have a choice which I have been shying away from which is do I do BAMM or continue on with AM. A lot of the reason I'm shying away from it is due to fear and even though my sole focus for the last two months has been developing a business that will turn me into a Multi Millionaire I still shy away from using BAMM through fear. So I will make the jump after OGFS into BAMM. I want to do it before BAMM as its something I want to focus on exclusively for a while. I feel with WM while it dealt with a lot of fear using OF by itself would have dealt with a lot more.
On the topic of shame there is something that has been niggling at me for a while now. I've always been described as being highly sensitive and a friend who knows me better than anyone reiterated this point to me last night. He was trying to get me to see it as a positive trait and something that should be cherished. I find it hard to understand how being highly sensitive falls into being a man and I have always feared this trait only hinders any attraction I may be able to build with women and holds me back in many areas of life. Maybe this is a quality that I was born with and need to manage the not so good traits of it and personify the good traits of it, or maybe it is a quality that I developed in childhood that I should be trying to overcome. That is all something I don't yet know but I do know what I did do in the past was repress my feelings which wasn't in the slightest bit healthy.
Edit: One more thing I've also found myself starting to be extremely honest firstly with myself and with certain other people as well. I had a girl a girl I've known for a while tell me the other night that she loves how i'm not judgmental of her and that i'm the one person who will give her an honest answer and not just tell her what she wants to hear. This is something i'm trying to bring more and more into all my relationships.
I'm most of the way through stage 6 now. The women side of things seems to have slowed down a lot but still making good progress in most other areas of life.
I've got a few things on the list to do next. I was thinking of a run through of OGFS as I've been discovering that I have a lot of shame built up which still holds me back in certain situations. From there I have a choice which I have been shying away from which is do I do BAMM or continue on with AM. A lot of the reason I'm shying away from it is due to fear and even though my sole focus for the last two months has been developing a business that will turn me into a Multi Millionaire I still shy away from using BAMM through fear. So I will make the jump after OGFS into BAMM. I want to do it before BAMM as its something I want to focus on exclusively for a while. I feel with WM while it dealt with a lot of fear using OF by itself would have dealt with a lot more.
On the topic of shame there is something that has been niggling at me for a while now. I've always been described as being highly sensitive and a friend who knows me better than anyone reiterated this point to me last night. He was trying to get me to see it as a positive trait and something that should be cherished. I find it hard to understand how being highly sensitive falls into being a man and I have always feared this trait only hinders any attraction I may be able to build with women and holds me back in many areas of life. Maybe this is a quality that I was born with and need to manage the not so good traits of it and personify the good traits of it, or maybe it is a quality that I developed in childhood that I should be trying to overcome. That is all something I don't yet know but I do know what I did do in the past was repress my feelings which wasn't in the slightest bit healthy.
Edit: One more thing I've also found myself starting to be extremely honest firstly with myself and with certain other people as well. I had a girl a girl I've known for a while tell me the other night that she loves how i'm not judgmental of her and that i'm the one person who will give her an honest answer and not just tell her what she wants to hear. This is something i'm trying to bring more and more into all my relationships.
The only person in life that can ever hold you back is yourself. So get out of your own way and start living the life you always dreamed of
