03-26-2013, 10:55 AM
One area of your Alpha Male Program that concerns me a little bit as I read through a lot of the testimonials.
This part about "Be selective about whom you spend your time with, and which women you give your time, interest and affections to."
"No longer be, or come across to others as “needy”."
Although I agree with these principles, some of the effects I notice are perhaps making men too selective?
It's like they are starting to get a lot of indicators of interest from women but somehow they feel that women is not "up to par" in quality with them and it turns them off and they do not pursue the women to sex.
I don't want to sound like the guy thats put in all importance on sex, but let's be honest. when rubber hits the road, sex has to come into play here...as measurement of success.
If you are waiting for your perfect 10 to get laid, then you could be waiting for a long time...perhaps its dangerous to strengthen the idea to "be selective", perhaps you run the risk of becoming "too selective" where you are just passing on opportunities that could of turned into fun sexual encounters.
and this idea of "not being needy", well again what is "needy" does the subconscious understand this? RSD guys definitely take the lead and actively pursue women to bed, that is the outer game... you can have women give you indicators of interest all day long but if you are not taking action, taking care of logistics, and leading her as a man. Sex will not take place.
What if you come from a background where you are lacking sexual encounters in life, and just want to get laid with many women?
RSD folks will teach you to start trying to get laid with 6s, then 7s, then 8s and moving up this way until having sex with a 10 becomes and feels natural to you. and as something that can happen in your reality.
Look I'm all for having self confidence that is unshaken by the outside, and many of the testimonials are inspirational but wheres the testimonials that report a man that starts getting laid a shit ton. I feel a lot of them is about "look I wasn't feeling her, so I had no problems turning her down."
like turning down women that are showing indicators of interest is some measurement of success, and not having sex with them...is it just me that wonders about this?
and worried about AM program, if it makes me too selective towards women?? what if the goal was to get laid as frequently as possible..??
could becoming too selective and "non needy" backfire....
This part about "Be selective about whom you spend your time with, and which women you give your time, interest and affections to."
"No longer be, or come across to others as “needy”."
Although I agree with these principles, some of the effects I notice are perhaps making men too selective?
It's like they are starting to get a lot of indicators of interest from women but somehow they feel that women is not "up to par" in quality with them and it turns them off and they do not pursue the women to sex.
I don't want to sound like the guy thats put in all importance on sex, but let's be honest. when rubber hits the road, sex has to come into play here...as measurement of success.
If you are waiting for your perfect 10 to get laid, then you could be waiting for a long time...perhaps its dangerous to strengthen the idea to "be selective", perhaps you run the risk of becoming "too selective" where you are just passing on opportunities that could of turned into fun sexual encounters.
and this idea of "not being needy", well again what is "needy" does the subconscious understand this? RSD guys definitely take the lead and actively pursue women to bed, that is the outer game... you can have women give you indicators of interest all day long but if you are not taking action, taking care of logistics, and leading her as a man. Sex will not take place.
What if you come from a background where you are lacking sexual encounters in life, and just want to get laid with many women?
RSD folks will teach you to start trying to get laid with 6s, then 7s, then 8s and moving up this way until having sex with a 10 becomes and feels natural to you. and as something that can happen in your reality.
Look I'm all for having self confidence that is unshaken by the outside, and many of the testimonials are inspirational but wheres the testimonials that report a man that starts getting laid a shit ton. I feel a lot of them is about "look I wasn't feeling her, so I had no problems turning her down."
like turning down women that are showing indicators of interest is some measurement of success, and not having sex with them...is it just me that wonders about this?
and worried about AM program, if it makes me too selective towards women?? what if the goal was to get laid as frequently as possible..??
could becoming too selective and "non needy" backfire....
